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My husband always used to tell me that when we were dating. He would always tell me, but I didn't leave him just for that, because I loved him and knew that I would never have to worry about him doing anything like that to me and I would never cheat on him. But if you plan to cheat on him, then you are probably messing with the wrong guy. But if you don't love him then you don't really have to stay with him. But what do you mean he is verbally abusive? His verbal abuse is sufficient reason to leave him and an ominous sign. That coupled with his thinly veiled threat of violence should you cheat on him is particularly disturbing. What if you don't cheat but he thinks you have? What if a harmless flirtation is overblown by him into something it's not? You need to extricate yourself from your relationship with him, but you must be careful. I would be willing to bet that your rejecting him will not sit well with him. If it's just word, fight fire with fire. I know it might be a little childish but if he can say all those things he should be able to take some too. If it goes farther than just words defiantly get rid of the guy, and if you don't love the guy then there's no really a loss.

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