Hate is a natural response especially if you have loved or cared for somone who has hurt you and left your life. That said, hate hurts many people and you'll find it hurts you the most. There is nothing worse than loving someone and now have bitterness that grows in you. It will stunt your growth and hurt your future.
You have been betrayed. Grieve over that now. Read about how ot deal with grief. Read books that teach about healthy relationships (not give you simple answers about things). Take it from someone who was robbed of a lot of years over anger. No situation happens in a vacuum. Your ex is responsible for not treating you as something precious and not treating you and all those involved with value and acting in restraint. However, there are ways you are responsible in how you were treated. To grow and get better we have to have humility to look for that, look for ways that we did not love the other or ourselves in appropriate ways that build trust and committment.
My story is that I carried alot of pain over betrayals and 6 years after the fact, I am now dealing with feelings of love for someone who I can see I also wronged in many ways. That person is no longer available to me.
Did he do wrong? Yes. But if you go for the emotion of hate, you'll be dealing with this situation again much later than need be. More likely with someone else. You can love someone without ever giving them the love they need. You can love someone who does not have the ability to love you and at times that person communicates that clearly. If you choose to go forward, what use is hating them for what they told you would happen? Better to understand that you are worth more, want more and turn away before your feelings are further engaged. The best protection, I think, is to demystify what is going on in a POTENTIAL relationship before it starts so you can make a good decision and when it is right, you can give your heart to someone who will treat it as a gift to him.
...what?
No.
Get over it.
First off, tell your boyfriend. Second, you need to think about if you still want to be with your boyfriend and get things straightened out between you two.
That is a decision to be made between your boyfriend and yourself
She wrote it for her ex-boyfriend, Sam. He cheated on her, and she is saying that he could have said no to the other girl.
Why not, he is your ex. So technically he can go out with whom he wants.
I think your question lacks information. For example, does your boyfriend and his ex have kids or any other reason for talking? Also, are you saying he has cheated on you with her?
If ure bf cheated on you,then i think you should forget about him! About the question you asked, it depends! If ure bf cheated on you,then i think you should forget about him! About the question you asked, it depends!
Okay- so your bf cheated on you. Dump him. If he did that, then you are waaay too good for him, so move on sista!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUMP HIM. U R WAAY 2 GOOD 4 HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I married my ex-wife after 2 yrs of divorce and i new of her infidelity
well if your ex still talks to u and u hate him then say that u have a boyfriend.