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Tell him how you feel. You have paid a great amount of attention to him. This is wonderful for a man's ego. He might not want to lose this attention by telling you he wants to be closer. You will have to tell him that this wonderful relationship has deeper possibilities. He probably feels the same.

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I agree with Jerry. If you are truly good friends then I don't see why expressing your emotions to him would end your friendship.

A similar experience happened to me. When I was single a young man named Tom and myself were very close and even went out, but seemed to just enjoy each others company; had loads of fun, and I really never thought anymore about it. One night he told me he loved me. I felt very badly because I loved him like a brother and I just told him the truth. That was 38 years ago and he is happily married now, and Tom, his wife, my husband and I are all good friends to this day.

Be prepared that he may not see you in the same light you see him. Before you act on this try dating other men for a bit. Give yourself a time period, and if you still feel the same way about him then, as Jerry says, have a talk with him. I honestly don't think you have given yourself a chance to experience other men in your life.

Don't apologize for the long post. Some of mine are too, but if you are trying to get your point across you are dealing with people's feelings and they need the best reaction to their post as possible.

Good luck Marcy

Both! A romantic relationship with someone who is also your friend is one of the best things a person can experience.

Well that is a difficult question which needs context. I have a roomate and we are great friends! We have classes together as well! The trouble is that we have slept together a few times. I really dont think he is into having a relationship as we decided it would be too difficult. But I really really like him. If i told him it would make things really weird and strange and there is no way to avoid it! I think i have to suck it up and try to get over it! I dont know if its possible but it must be. In this case "Stay friends" applies!

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