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What are gays?
You don't always know, sometimes they hide it or they don't act stereotypicaly gay. Some gay guys act feminine, for example talking in a high pitched voice or wearing feminine… clothing. Some guys can also seem gay, but they aren't. It can be confusing at times. The best way to know for sure is wait until they tell you. Or, you could become close friends with them, if your a boy, and wait till they ask if you want to make out.
This kind of thing can cause so much needless stress for people. A gay thought does not make a person gay. In fact, many people in their 20's, 30's and beyond, may have …a single gay encounter, or a brief 'fling', and this does not mean that the person is gay. There is also no requirement that straight people have this kind of experience. Think of it this way. We are, all of us, sexy. I mean this in a general sense of course; I wouldn't do well competing for degree of sex appeal against current movie stars. But as sexual and sexy people, we can at times be attracted to other sexual and sexy people, even of the same sex. People shouldn't go crazy over this, and this is absolutely NOT license to engage in unfaithfulness.
Accept who you are and remember that there are people who love you.
YES! Everyone has their own right to their sexuality. Whether it be gay, straight or bi. Everyone is entitled to their preferences. Most countries have become enlightened to… the point they now understand this is not a choice. There are a few countries that still do not understand the idea of human rights and find being gay to be offensive. Another answer: The question above is really not the right question for this. Whether it is right or wrong to be gay or to act on gay feelings is irrelevant. People are going to be and do who they want to be and do, and nobody can stop them. As long as whatever actions are between fully consenting adults and does not put others at risk, then society should for the most part, mind their own business. While the orientation itself might not be a choice, acting on it most certainly is. You might not choose your attractions, but you do choose what you do, and with whom you do it. There is nothing wrong in terms of society to feel however you want. If you feel like doing something others deem unpopular, illegal, or immoral, you are free to think and feel about it all you want. Nobody will try to stop you. Acting on whatever is another matter, and not everyone will like whatever, nor should they be expected to. We are all individuals and all should be treated with dignity and respect.
They become Gay way before they know about it, just as when Straight people become straight ! It is something scientists are still unsure about, but we know it is either befor…e birth or during pre-adolescence. The fact is that children do not know what sexual orientation they are until they reach Puberty and beyond even if they are attracted to the same gender before. There is no way of turning gay by any other means. It is something that is set in the brain. You are gay if your sexual thoughts and deeds are purely of the same gender. This does not mean that someone cannot act gay though ! It is clearly possible for heterosexual beings to have homosexual thoughts and actions when they so desire. This does not mean they are gay. During puberty boys can quite often perform sexual acts together during sleepovers. This is classed as normal curiosity behaviour during that period of time. It is possible to be Bisexual. This is when the person has sexual thoughts towards their own gender and the opposite gender. This can be mixed up with homosexuality. Persons of Bisexuality are more prone to believing that sexual orientation is a choice.
Yes, gay people are really gay. No one benefits from pretending tobe gay.
You are or you aren't. While there are some who act like the typical stereotype's, Gays come in all shapes, sizes, colors, and ways of acting.
Here are various user opinions: . Because gay people are awesome! . It's probably combination of environment and genetics, orperhaps God blessed you. . No one is really… clear on why people are gay, same with notknowing why people are straight. Generally speaking it is believedthat being gay or straight (or whatever) is a matter of genes orbirth order--every time a woman has a boy her next son is morelikely to be gay. . Some people believe homosexuality is God's way of protectinghis world from overcrowding. . Because you were born that way. You didn't (and still don't)have a choice in the matter the same as you don't have a choice inbeing a human being. It's just who you are. . Because you think that the gender you are is fit! There'snothing wrong with that! You are perfect! Some people say no one isperfect, I say every one is, it who you are and you are the mostimportant person in the world! . Baby, you were born this way. Lady Gaga's words not mine. . I am not sure you are gay. Some people that are gay walkdifferent talk different and dress different and are not scared tobe gay.
No, YouTube Is not just for "Gay" people. YouTube is a video browsing site for all people, no matter what gender they are intrested in.
Not entirely, there's a term called "gaydar" it's where people pick up hints. However it's not accurate. Best way of knowing is asking the person. Also, this applies to any …sexuality you can never truly know.
If you just realizing you are gay the first steps are accepting yourself. Sometimes it can be hard to just accept yourself for what you are. After you have accepted you…rself it is time to share it with others, you can take this at your own pace and introduce the concept slowly, to your closest friends etc. If you are afraid that people will judge you don't tell those people. Going out to support gay rights marathons are a good way to feel comfortable around people that are just like you, they can give you confidence and help you accept yourself.
Although sexual orientation (whether a person is gay or straight) may be genetically determined, there's no statistical evidence that gay men are more likely than straight men… to have gay children.
Like most people, simply because they're different and someone doesn't like that. It's mainly the result of prejudice, particularly religious-based prejudice.
Gay is not something bad or good, it is a state of mind resulting from different but categorized backgrounds related to the psychology of each individual. Being …gay is more hard than being straight since gays notice that they are different. No one would choose to be gay. Every gay if he/she is happy of what he/she is, that's fine, but if he/she is not happy and this is making him/her suffer, he/she only should seek help, no one should tell them to change. No one can do anything to stop him/her being gay,since it is related to the neuron connections in the brain since the brain of the person was conceived in the womb till the moment at which the person is no more comfortable with himself/herself, so it is every second of his/her life even while he/she is sleeping, and no one knows at those seconds what are the thoughts crossing into the brain, only one knows what is in there, he is The Creator that made them that way and that would give him/her the needed help, I can not know how, I am not supposed to know how. But he/she will get what they ask for from the Creator.
"Gay" means a homosexually oriented person, a person who is primarily or exclusively sexually attracted to others of the same sex: men to men, or women to women. In the US the…se days, "gay" usually refers to homosexual men. Homosexual women usually call themselves "lesbians."
If you are asking what gays do then it means that a women and another women are togever and the sane with men, they do excatly the sane things as a man and a women would do bu…t just have sex a different way.
It is not something you can decide. It is just that you develop (sexual) feelings for the same sex. This is not a problem at all. It does not hurt anybody.