So what will change if you get the answer to this?
There are probably as many answers to this as there are masochists. Somehow, a link develops between pain and sexual arousal. In some cases, the masochist may be addicted to the endorphins the body releases when it is hurt. In other cases, the pain is less important than helplessness or being dominated -- the pain is merely a symbol of this.
It is possible to play masochistic games safely with a knowledgeable partner. It may take nothing more than a spanking! You need to establish rules (for example, no bruising and no blood) and a "safe word" that will tell your partner that you've reached a limit and need to take a break. Both of you should also take a basic first aid course, and both of you have to be comfortable calling for emergency medical help if necessary -- including telling the EMTs what happened. Remember, both legally and morally, the "top" is responsible for the safety of both of you.
Finally, do not play this game when either of you are high or drunk!
The exact cause of sadism is not known yet.
A Defence of Masochism was created in 1998.
Masochism in the Place of Romance was created in 2004.
masochism
The word masochism refers to the behavior when an individual seeks self harm or humiliation voluntarily. Masochism is the direct opposite of sadism. Sadism is when someone takes pleasure in inflicting harm upon others. Masochism could be of a sexual nature, but does not have to be. In psychiatry sexual masochism is usually what is discussed as a mental disorder. Luckily, prognosis is good in most cases for those treated for the disorder.
The cast of M Is for Masochism - 2013 includes: Freya Berry as Jennifer
sadism is the enjoyment of inflicting abuse onto another, masochism is the enjoyment of receiving abuse, (i for one am a masochist)
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Sadism is getting aroused by the pain of another, whereas masochism is being aroused when you yourself are in pain.
Anita Phillips has written: 'A defence of masochism' -- subject(s): Masochism 'Una Defensa del Masoquismo'
The cast of Smoking and Masochism - 2012 includes: Juan Amador Angelina Prendergast as Mimi
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A complex acronym, based on Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission and Sadism & Masochism