There are no easy answers and each situation is different. Here are some suggestions:
Well to start with, remember that your child is looking for a reaction. DON'T give them one. But do take away things such as violent video games and try to restrict their TV access. Next lower their sugar intake and think if they have been hanging around with any bad influances. Especially if they have never been emotionally abusive until reacently.
Then spend a day of quality time with them, towards the end of the day ask them why they feel they need to behave in such a way. It could be due to stress, pressure or another problem.
REMEMBER NOT ONLY IS THIS NOT YOUR FAULT BUT PEOPLE TAKE THEY'RE PROBLEMS OUT ON THOSE CLOSEST TO THEM AS A CRY FOR HELP.
You need to find the reason, and at first it may be hard for them to open up to you, they may get angry or even act violent but not towards you (usually kick a chair) but keep trying just try to give them a little space, there will be a momment and only for a momment liek an opening, where you will be able to tell that they will open up to you an that is when you need to act. Show support and willingness to understand but don't assume you 'know what they're going through' people react to things diffrently.
Also i hate to say it but be warey of alchol and drug abuse.
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Be strong, pray, and never lose your cool. Once you lose your cool, it becomes a war of the wills. Don't provide anything for them at all other than basic necessities. Get into counseling if necessary. Sometimes you have to provide tough love. I think there is a book or two out there regarding that subject matter. Whatever you do, do not enter their "playing field" of emotional abuse. You are the parent, be strong, and teach them the proper way to behave. It can take some time, patience, endurance, etc. but it will be worth it once you reach the "other side". :-) Hang in there. It will not last forever even though it may seem like it.
Depends on what you mean by uncontrollable. If he is not taking any notice of you (the parent or guardian) or being disruptive or violent you can ask for assistance from Social Services from the Local Authority/Council. If he is getting into trouble and breaking the law outside the home then you can ask the Police or Courts to consider an order of good behaviour ie, Anti Social Behaviour Order. If he breaks this order then he will be liable to spend some time in a juvenile detention centre. You may want to try taking him to see the doctor first though as there may be a mental reason why he is like it. It could be there are underlying factors as to why he is acting this way. Then again it may be that he is just a teenager going through a bad time of puberty. Some teenagers are later in puberty than others. They can be very argumentative and have no reason to kick off. Sometimes it is better to ignore it and walk away. They don't even know why they get like it, but will take out their confusion and anger on close family members. They are usually sorry after it all calms down though. The brains in teenagers are all over the place and everything seems like such an upheaval. They need to know you are there for them even if it looks like they hate you at times. If you cannot manage ask for help from the above but remember you can ask him to leave home at 18-years-old if he does not improve his behaviour. Ask him when things are calm about what the problems are in his life and try and see if you can help change anything to make life easier.
Answer 1: You can grab him up and give him a good beat down.
Answer 2: You can send him to military school.
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Answer 3: You can kick him out the house tell all relatives not to let him in until he realises that he did some thing wrong, and he begs you to come back and apologizes.
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Just because his expectation is that you will support him until he is 18 despite how he treats you, doesn't mean that it is unconditional. Tell him that you love him, but that doesn't mean you have to put up with this. If he is willing, get him into counseling for anger management.
If he is physically abusive, call the police on him. Inform him that he needs to move out since you do not believe he is doing what he should. Then, change the locks.
Don't be a victim. Talk to him...But if he keeps doing it just don't listen. Remember you're the parent, Not Him. Don't let him abuse you.
Throw him out on the curb.
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No disabled children do not understand that they are being abused.
Cheetahs are being abused by humans that shoot them or hunt them down in their natural habitat.
If you are being abused you should contact the proper authorities. Rebeling is not the answer and may only lead you to worse situations. Your father may not be afraid of you but, I'll bet he's afraid of the police.
If you have to ask... Then you are probably being abused verbally.
People who have been sexually abused have reported being sexually abused.
If there's clear evidence of this and it's not simply an attempt to manipulate the courts.
You can obtain a Protective Order against your son and have him evicted from the home (at least for a time).
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