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u should just tell her that you really love the guy and want him to be part of your life and your babys life you don't want the babi to grow up without a father my moms was the same way but now shes gotten used to the idea! good luck! Tiffany k.(garcia) If I were you then I would talk to your mom again. If she says no then I would listen to her because first of all your under 16 and he's 18. That's statutory rape.If you were 16 then it would be o.k. but your not. Somebody could tell on him and he could go to jail. It doesn't have to even be your mom it could be someone like your teacher or anybody else. I know you love him and you're pregnant but just live home and he can go over there anytime to see the baby. Your mom can't tell him to not come and see his kid. It's not like she is stopping you from being together. You're a minor which means that your parents have control over where you live and who you see. The fact that you're pregnant makes no difference, in the regard that *you are still considered to be a minor*. Now, I'm sure that fact doesn't please you. I'm also sure that your mother is not pleased by the fact that she's about to become a grandmother. And no doubt, she'll spend a great deal of time and money helping to raise this grandchild. So what should you do? Listen to your mother. You've probably already made her angry enough by getting pregnant, do you really want to make her more angry? Do you want to give her a reason to call the police on this man? If you move in with him without her permission then she can have you picked up and have him charged with something along the lines of 'contributing to the delinquency of a minor'. Then someone (be it your mom or the police) might mention the words 'statutory rape'. In just about every state, someone under the age of 16 has not reached the 'age of sexual consent' so this man has committed a felony by having sex with you. He could go to prison for that. It would be easy to prove his guilt, because once that baby's born a DNA test will prove that he's the father. Use your brain! Don't give your mother a reason to become any more upset than she already is. Take time to let your mom adjust to the situation. Let her know your boyfriend is her grandchild's father and you want him to be a part of yours and your babies life and you want her to be included in your new family. A lot of times in this situation many people act on emotions and do not take the time to think. Your mom may be worried about not being able to help you through the pregnancy, also you'll need her help and advice after the child is born.
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How does a 16-year-old girl tell her mom she is pregnant when her mom thinks that the boyfriend and her don't see each other?
How Does A 16 Year Old Tell Her Mom She is Pregnant By The Boyfriend She Was Forbidden To See: * The same thing happened to me and I solved it by just letting my mother… find out herself. I was too scared to tell her. * First be calm about it. Don't get scared. I'm about to have a baby. I'm so scared; I don't even know if I should tell my dad, but I am going to. Your mother should get to tell you what to do with your baby. So go to your mom and say, "Mom, I'm pregnant with the guy you thought I stopped seeing." If it happens to get messy, walk away and come back when she stops shouting. Moms have been getting this news for centuries. They can handle it. Just don't yell at her or it will mess up your pregnancy. * First, remember that she is your mom and she loves you and only wants what is best for you. She will probably be mad at first and yell and maybe say some hurtful things, but give her time to cool down before you respond in a bad way. She will also be disappointed because she thought you knew better. The sooner you tell her the better and she can and will help you in at least some ways. She will find out in a few months for sure anyway. The sooner you tell her the better off you'll be and it will be a lot of stress off of your back! * Well I'm sort of going through the same thing right now but I'm 15 not 16 and at the time I told my mom I already knew I was for sure pregnant but my advice to you is tell your mom. I was scared at first that she'd yell at me and my boyfriend's 23!! so I was scared she'd have him put away but she didn't she was actual happy about the baby and as far as my man goes she actual lets him stay the night with me now and me stay the night with him. Even my dad didn't trip about it. He was happy too and they're both going to help me with the baby, and my mom bought me $210.00 worth of baby supplies. So it never turns out as bad as you suspect.
Answer No, not without written notarized permission from your parent(s) giving temporary custody to a qualified adult. In most states temporary custody is d…efined as three months or less. Any adult aiding and/or allowing a minor to reside in their home without the parents and/or authorities being made aware of the situation can be subjected to criminal and civil penalties. Other consequences pertaining to such an action depend upon the laws of the state of residency.
What should you do if you live with your mom and her husband who is abusive and you are 16 and pregnant and can you move out to live with your boyfriend?
Answer I'm 16yrs.old and I was never pregnant but my mom had an abusive husband and I went and stayed with my boyfriend so if you feel like you can make it living… with him you should try it if not forever but at least for a little bit. If you feel like staying there with your mom and her husband is stressing you out then leave because you could hurt your baby and no pregnant person should stress
If you are 16 and pregnant can you become emancipated if your 18 year old boyfriend agrees to support you?
Answer Well if he got you pregnant, he could go to jail!!!! If he is the father.
You are 16 living in WI your boyfriend is 18 and lives in MN you are now pregnant and want to live with him and he is willing to support you but your mom does not agree what do you do?
Answer You learn from your mistakes.
i think only with parents consent
Can a 16 year old who is pregnant and wants to move in with her boyfriend who is 18 to help raise the baby legally move out without parental permission in the state of Washington?
Answer . No ... the 16 year old is still considered "underage" and the laws do not change just because someone wants to move out from parents home to raise a family. Still …requires parental decision - 16 years old is still a "child" in the eyes of the law.
You are 16 turning 17 on April 16 and you have a child you want to move in with your boyfriend and get emancipated your mom wrote a note for you to get emancipated Can you be emancipated in Michigan?
You can, but you have to be able to show that you can financially support yourself, handle your social and financial affairs and are not going to be dependant upon state… aid.
You are 16 and pregnant can you move out of your moms house to move in with your 18 year old boyfriend?
The only way i can find out right now is if u get emancipated and that's what im looking for rightnow cuz im 16 and pregnant and my boyfriend is 18 too. If i find anythign el…se out, then i will write you back
No. It is not a good idea to live with a boy when you are so young. Stay at home and go to school. If your home life is troubled then seek a relative and if that is not… possible then seek a girlfriend house. living with a boy so young is asking for more than you realize and you are too young to see what lies ahead, this would be a very big mistake. what happens when your boyfriend decides he wants another girlfriend or you want another boyfriend? do you really think he is going to let you live in his house dating another boy? do you think you can live with him while he is dating another girl? What happens when he brings her to the house, how is that going to make you feel? Stay home.
Your daughter pregnant want to move with boyfriend shes 16 and he is 19 you want to emancipate her can you?
i am a person who was a bit like your daughter in my case i was only 15 and pregnant my family tried always to stop me but once the police got involved they said it was …my choice as i will soon be looking after a baby so i stayed with my boyfriend and as my parents where been so angry and trying to take control of my life i stopped talking to them for over a year, until my daughter was 8 months old! so my advice is let her learn the hard way as that way she won't fall out with you and you won't miss them important stages in your grand child's life!!
If you are old enough to move in with your boyfriend you are mature enough to be an adult and tell them honestly how you feel. Tell them all about him, get them to know him an…d trust him. Make them a part of it. show them where you will be living and accept them wanting to help by doing the curtains or fixing the shower. Then they will not feel you are deserting them. Assure them that you will visit often and make each other meals. ====== It is difficult to answer without knowing your and your boyfriend's ages and levels of maturity, but I generally agree with the above. The most important thing is for you and your boyfriend to have a plan as to how you will spend the rest of your lives together, whether and when you will start a family (or prevent yourselves from doing so), buy a house, save for your children's education and save for your retirement. What careers do each of you plan to have? What are your present and potential earnings? One of the most important parts of a plan is a budget. How much will you spend? How much will you save? How much will you put aside for vacations, Christmas, and other special events? Which one of you will handle what aspects of the money? Why do you want to move in with your boyfriend? If it's just for lots of sex, you're better off getting a motel room. Make sure both of you have a detailed lifetime plan before you make the leap. The worst thing would be to find that there are now three of you and the relationship is falling apart. Go away together for weekends, practise birth control, and really get to know one another well. A lifetime relationship is a lot more about putting out the garbage, cutting the grass, doing the laundry and washing the dishes than it is about sex.
no way you need to stay with your parents yyou are to young hes too old for u and hell probably leave you in like AA couple of monthss anyways
Well, Yes you can if you need help with the baby and want the father to be by your side but only if the parents of your boyfriend and your parents say its ok.
If a 16 year old girl gets pregnant and her 16 year old boyfriend and her want to get pregnant. Can they legally go to Georgia and get married?
in order to be married in any state you have to be a resident of atleast 6 months.
No. You have to be 18 to choose who you want to live with, but by that age, you can live alone, too.
Not unless you get emancipated (the pregnancy don't do that) or married.