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What to do if your spouse suddenly refuses to stop his affair?
Mgodat
walk out and never go back?
ANSWER:
If your husband is refusing to stop his cheating, I think it's time for you to rearrange your life. If you have done everything possible about your marriage and your husband don't want anything to do with it, it's time to think about you. You need to settle and start all over again, and with Gods help I think you will meet a man that
will love you for who you are. Let him go..
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∙ 13y ago
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∙ 7y agoTHEN I WOULD GET A DIVORCE,,,,HE NEEDS TO LOVE YOU ENOUGH TO END IT,,,IF NOT,,,YOU NEED TO MOVE ON
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First I do am sorry if this is happening to you. If your husband refuses to end his affair, its time for you to think of what you wanted. I'm not sure if you talk to the other woman that helping your husband ruin your life. If you have children I think you need to think about them first. You can not let them see what your husband is doing and at the same time being a part time father to your kids.
Even if you still love your husband, what he is doing is not good for you and the children. And if the two of you don't have any kid, this will help you a lot. If this man really loves you, he will never even think of going to that direction. Once in a while we need to think about what's out there for us. It maybe hard but its time for you to let him go, this is not a life that you deserve from him.
You have a good case against your husband if you wanted a divorce. It's time for you to think of you. Life is to short for you to stay with your husband while he is having another woman. No one is allowed to play on fire, people that play this fire will get burn and you do not deserve this life. May God help you while you still have a good chance..
Answer also: An improper relationship can lead to marital disaster. If your husband refuses to end his affair then he no longers respects your or your marital bonds. He really could care less if your marriage ends in disaster. To continue an affair means he cares more about his sexual gratification than ANYTHING else or else he would stop. Now you have a decision to make, how long with you deal with this unfaithful, treacherous, cheating husband? Dont you think and care more for yourself than that. Time to see a lawyer my dear.
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∙ 13y agoWhen a husband get caught cheating, he will use every words he can find in a dictionary. All the lame excuses, stories, and lies will come out of his mouth. His world that was comfortable and fun because of his mistress collapse in front of his eyes. The pain that he knows it will happen that he ignored is facing him and his wife. He will have a face of a sad person acting like he just lost his best friend, which he did. This man will tell you how sorry he is, it wasn't his fault, it just happen, and his favorite words will be " were just friends." Don't take the words of this man, he will do everything so you wouldn't blame him.
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∙ 12y agoI believe that it would be best for you to leave him. I'm not saying divorce right away if you're not up for leaving him easily. But have a conversation with him and tell him that you can't be with him or sit back and watch your own heart breaking. I would stay at a close friend or family members house or apartment for a bit. However, If he
A) never calls
B) doesn't stop by or
C) doesn't try at all to get in touch with you and make things better or say sorry
then, I would think it's time for a break, breakup, or divorce. Right now he either lost feelings for you or may be bored with your relationship and wants something different so he's testing you to see if you'll stay and wait for him. You must be strong and must not wait and wait because if you do, he will just assume he can treat you like a garbage bag...and that is not right.
I hope this helped and gave piece of mind.
I Agree With Who Ever Wrote The Answer Above Me And I Would Wait For A While And Move Out With A Family Member Or A Close Friend Also. And As Time Goes By And He Does Not Change Then Its Better To Move On Because He Is Not Worth It Because He IS Not Taking You As A Woman Like You Are And With The Respect You Should Be Getting From Him Nd Not Treating You Like He Is!
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∙ 12y agoLeave. But first, gather as much evidence of his cheating as you possibly can. Even if you have an amicable no contest divorce, legal issues may arrive years later where you may want to discredit him by showing weak character and ethics.
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∙ 13y agoMake him understand the importance of doing so, and whether you can forgive him. if not, leave him and find someone worthy of your love.
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How long do you give a spouse to let go of an affair?
There isn't a correct answer for this. If you are thinking about a time period then you have already forgiven him/her. Letting the person know how you feel and that he/she needs to end this is enough time for other person to stop it right away. If there isn't any children involved with the affair then it should be stop right away. Why should there be given any time.
How do you stop affair?
All you have to do is stop, you don't need any help from no one. But if you are asking ways to stop your affair, it will shows that your not really ready to stop your affair. If you are the wife and your wondering how you can tell your husband to stop his affair, all you have to do is talk to him, give him choices what he will face if he don't. But if he tells you that he can't or wont it means that your husband needs to decide if he want to stay married with you or divorce you. It's that simple
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