What do you do if your brother ask you to choose between him and your boyfriend and you love them both equally and cant live without them while both are nice and love you dearly?
Smack your brother in the face for asking such a stupid question
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\n. \n Answer \n. \nEither make a decision and pick one or face the fact that you are emotionally immature and will never be able to have a real relationship.\n. \n Answer \n. \nYou just want it all! You weren't fair with your ex and now you aren't fair with your present boyfriend. …You just want your ex because you can't stand the thought of another girl dating him. Yes, it's time you did mature! (MORE)
well if you think that he is the one that you want to spent your life with and you know that he trully loves you then i don't see why not. but i think its best to discuss this with your parents and tell them he/she is the one and hopefully they can agree on this.
Answer . You need to have a place to be able to reflect on this matter alone. Take the time to open your heart and look honestly at what your situation is right now. You've been with one 19 years,does that not justify that you do love this person. If you didn't you'd been gone long ago.Do you ha…ve fond memories with this person. Of course there is always going to be up and downs in any relationship it's never going to be a bed of roses 24/7. Can you truly count on this person to be there for you and have they been there for you when you need them. Sometimes we think we have fallen out of love with a long term partner because it has become so comfortable with them,and,we tend to begin to take each other for granted. When this problem finally arrives we sometimes begin to think that they don't love us or we we don't love them any longer. This is when a couple begin to drift away from each other. We may not go anywhere together as a couple much as we use to or one or both of us may have stopped caring what we look like. Talking with each other may not be like it should be. But all in all look back,there are many good memories there. Do everything you can possibly do to try and make the older relationship work. Have you done this? If so does the person who you've been in the longer relationship know how you feel? If not at least have the guts to sit down with this person and have a heart to heart talk. It's not fair to them if you don't. Your not in the relationship alone you know. Maybe they are just as unhappy as you are. As for the other five year relationship why has it taken so long for a decsion to be made if you also love this person? Is there a doubt there along the line that has casued you to stay with the longterm partner for five extra years instead of being with this other person? You know you can't have your cake and eat it too,most people don't like to share,and in the long run it will cause nothing but heartache and stress on both relationships for you as well as the both of them. Please think this over very carefully. (MORE)
My heart is split in two by two guys i love them both dearly but how do i tell which one is true love?
well you can't have them both. you need to look over what the good and bad things. which ever one has the most values...that's the one that you should stick with...the one that you think will treat you right and not do you wrong. yeah that's just my opinion so if you don't like it I'm sorry!
Why cant you be in love with two people at a time when you love both your parent or both your siblings at the same time?
Answer . you can love two people at the same time. Stuff like that just happens. follow your heart and it will work out. But it is never ok to cheat
If you have a boyfriend who you find out is wiuth your best guy friend but says he loves you both equally but won't choose between the two even though the boy is just using him what do you do?
Break up with the boyfriend. You're obviously not his top priority, and there's no need for you to make him yours.
If a guy you like asks you out but you have a boyfriend and you like them both the same who do you choose?
You are the only one who can answer this question. This is all part of growing up and beginning relationships. There will always be "one better" no matter how old you get. If the present boyfriend ever finds out that you dated another guy, he may get quite upset, and rightly so, just as you would sh…ould he date another girl while claiming you as his girlfriend. Always best to walk in another's shoes in these instances before making any firm decisions. You could lose both guys in a matter of minutes. (MORE)
How do I choose between my high school sweetheart and my husband both of which I love in entirely different ways?
Well choose your husband and please get over your high school sweetheart because you are married now.
break up with him girl. answer . ask him "Do you love me enough to break up with her?" if he says no...you have to break up with him. its not fair for you to love him while he loves another.
You just started talking to my Ex-boyfriend again after 9 years we are both married and live in different states both have kids but you know you still love him and you believe he still loves you?
You are both married, you both have children with other people... in a sense that answers your question before you have even asked it. One of the things that is so difficult with being married with kids and in a normal routine; when someone comes along from your past and all of those exciting fee…lings from when you were kids come rushing back it can feel like falling in love all over again. All that is actually happening is you are remembering what it was like to be in love with that person. Sit down, take a deep breath, splash some cold water on your face. Now, think... You are married to your husband, you and he have beautiful children, think of your wedding day, the look on his face when you gave birth to his first child, the day he first told you he loved you, the day he asked you to marry him. Would you really want to risk throwing away all of that for an old flame? (MORE)
Should i move 3 hours away from were i live to be with my boyfriend we are both 18 and we both love each other?
You could . . . but if you guys ever break up would you still wanna live there??!!
Your boyfriend and I are both 12 and I really love him But everyone else in our grade hates him What should I do?
You shouldn't do anything, it doesnt matter what everyone else thinks, if you like him then you like him. At age 12, you are much to young to fully realize what "love" really means. Love doesn't happen overnight - it is cultivated from many years in a relationship. As far as "friendship" is concern…ed, it matters not what other people think about someone you know ... it's all about you liking (I didn't say loving) him, and that's what matters the most. (MORE)
well this may sound corny, but follow your heart. you will know which one is right for you.
You asked a boy out and your friend did so he said to you both because he dont want to choose between you and then your friend gets boyfriend. how do ask the boy back out if you became good friends.?
The same way you did the first time but be sure to include that your friend nnow has a boyfriend. Good Luck!. Answer . Try tell him how u feel inside that way he can realy c how much u like him!
" Ich liebe euch beide " or " Ich habe euch beide lieb" is the translation.
show them the type of love that every parent needs to give their kids. equal love is emotional,be a thankful mom that you have two amazing kids. don't share one love that jigglez inside show them all of it. not one because that right there just tells me you don't care to eat the other apple. hi my n…ame is Lisa be a mother. kiss your kids,tuck them both into bed,read both of them bed time stories. do something that will make you an awsome parent. you might not here that alot but you need to work on sharing your heart with two kids, not one. (MORE)
Both are still in love but cant decide on where to live Should you break up with your boyfriend after being in an 8 yrs long distance relationship?
If you both are still in LOVE... then breaking is not an option just because you can't make up your mind.Especially after eight YEARS!!!DANG!!CONGRATS!!!Just choose a random place and it should be fine if you have eachother...
What do you do if someone on the internet is your new boyfriend but you already have a boyfriend but love them both what would you do?
i think you should stick with the person who isn't online, online relationship can be messy.
Cheating is the lowest form one partner can do to another so it's better for each of you to be honest with your partners and divorce and marry each other. If marriage is not an option for either of you and you are having an affair then it isn't love. Either commit to each other or stay with your mat…es and stop keeping in contact with each other. (MORE)
he may call you very often... ask about your events and lastly he never miss to wiish ur birthday:-) . I once was both far and in love from my girlfriend. It was sad but I knew because she texts me lots of time a lot. lol yay!!11
You don't you forget about her. ANSWER: Don't play on fire or else it will come back to you and really hit you. Maybe we can love two person but you can't really have both of them especially if the other one is your ex. Think about it why did this guy become your ex, if its real love for this m…an the two of you will not break up, no matter who did the wrong thing. So don't you think the other guy deserve your heart without sharing it to the other man? (MORE)
You are in love with your brothers best mate and could see you both getting together in the future but you cant imaging having sex with him without it being awkward afterwards?
You are a geek, just be a real woman and get it over with. Pound him like he likes it.
What to do when you're in love with you best friend but you have a boyfriend who is also his friend and you love both?
Who do u luv better? If u like ur best friend better than break up with ur BF but if u like ur BF better than continue 2 be with him.
Your boyfriend is lovely but you can seem to find a conversation you can both relate to Can anyone help?
Sounds like a bad idea.. Communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship - if you can't find common ground and talk to each other, what is the basis of the relationship in the first place? If the two of you have a hard time making conversation, that might be a sign that it may be… time to end things.. There's other cute boys out there, who I'm sure you could find conversation with. =) (MORE)
it's most likely that you are not over your ex-bf, or it might be that you are scared to get hurt again, based upon your previous relationships; thoughts are probably roaming through your head bring this fear of him doing the same thing, therefore, your brain tries to prevent this hurt and your hear…t rejects him to be loved. (MORE)
Being in love and living 6 years with your ex brother-in-law both have kids can you get married and have kids?
Yes, as long as your not siblings by blood, but it probably won't be looked on very fodly, especially by family and community. You may also have probs with your present and future kids rebelling over it.
I have an ex boyfriend and we both are with someone he swears he want to be with me and he loves me how do you if its the truth?
If this guy is willing to give up his current girlfriend for you then he would of already done so . If he has , then there is a sign of truth . If he is still currently with his girlfriend and tells you he will break up with her for you .. then he is most likely to break up with you later on for ano…ther girl. This would also show how much of an unfaithful guy he could be . . (MORE)
Cant divorce you both are married to different people he loves his wife you dont love your husband you both hav children and great sex?
Put your sex life on the back burner and be a good parent, both of you .And you , my dear, are just his bit on the side. Have a little self-respect.
What do you do if you love your ex boyfriend and your current boyfriend and they both want a baby with you?
If you love your ex boyfriend, dump the current boyfriend and go back to the ex. Marry him, and then have his baby. . Rule #1: Do not under any circumstances have a baby with someone you don't love. . Rule #2: Do not under any circumstances have a baby you can't afford to raise. . Rule #3: Think,… very carefully about both rules 1 and 2 before doing anything. . Rule #4: If you have to ask the question you posted, you're not ready to have a baby. (MORE)
I like the pink color, too. I have the pink dall and pink sheet, pink is very cute. There is a pink iron below: http://www.hairstraightenerfashion.com/goods-7-CHI-Hair-Straightener-PINK.html
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Let her go - you will only hurt yourself holding on.. Fill your time with things you enjoy doing, or exercise, or focus on something else so your mind is filled and you don't have time to think about it. "If you let it go and it comes back it was always yours but if it does not return it never was…" Life's like that, and through finding the strength to let go - we become stronger and wiser to endure the challenges that life throws up at us. When it is time for you to give your love to someone, you will be ready to receive love back. Patience is a Virtue.... Take Care, and look after YOU. (MORE)
Well, try to figure out which one you love more, and who's qualities you like more, i know its hard...good luck! :)
well if you love your ex more than your husband/wife you are most likely not in love with him/her! even though your ex probely wont break-up wiht his/her wife/husband it would be best to not pretend to love him/her!!
I am in love with a married girl as she is not in good terms with her husband. Is it ok. Both of us can not live without each other.?
It's ok to be in love, nothing wrong here! But it's not ok to lie, being with a woman who is still married is a form of lie. She has a decision to take, and it's not of your control. You shouldn't urge her to take that decision.
Just sit down, think, listen to your heart, and wait for that signal from God (if you believe in God if not just some type of signal). Also don't drag it out to long or one will get really hurt.
When an older brother is in love with his little sister and cant live without her what should he do should he tell her?
It will be hormones (I know everyone says that, but its true). It's good to be a protective older brother but doing anything inappropriate is not right. Think about what is right for the little sister and her life.
Usually it's because he just doesn't know what to say back. It might overwhelm him in either a good, or a bad way, so just take it slow so you can both sort out your feelings.
Keep on moving, utill you can see things from a different perspective. You wont understand what I mean until you're there. It gets better. (:
Pick the one who u known for a long time or put them to the test
What do i do when im still in love with my ex and he is still in love with me but we both wont make the move to ask to be together again. i mean he asked me to prom y cant he just ask me to be wit me?
This is just am opinion, but I think you should take charge. I read that like 80% of guys want the girl to make the first move. Follow your heart if this doesn't help or work.
To be honest he's an ex for a REASON. Whatever it was that broke you two up, you need to have some sort of relationship. It's best to talk, and hang out as friends. Work your way up with the occasional flirt like touching his arm or the longer friendly hugs and smiles. Make the other person feel com…fortable in your presence then tell him how you feel and hope for the best. c: (MORE)
Whom do you choose between brother and husband when your brother ask you to choose and you love both of them equally?
Any answer of either option here would be pure opinion on part of the person answering. I'm guessing that if your brother has gone to the extreme of offering you this ultimatum, there are some deep issues going on within your family relationships at the moment. You are the only person who knows what…'s in your heart. Perhaps you can tell your brother that you love them both equally, and talk to him about how any differences between him and your husband may be resolved. (MORE)
What should you do if you have a boyfriend and you cheated on him with your ex and you're still in love with your ex but you love them both?
Decide which one you love more. If it was me, i'd stay with the new boyfriend, for your ex boyfriend is your ex because something obviously went wrong in the relationship. You still love him cuz that's your old love your always gonna have feelings for him, but watever you do, i woouldnt tell you new… bf you've cheated on him with an ex, thts just heartbreaking news, and know one should have to feel that pain esp if their being faiithful to. if u love your new one, give it a chance, don't make the same mistake u did with the last and let your ex go!!!! its not worth loseing anothr love over, but thts a Sticky situtation, hope everything works out for you. (MORE)
I know how you feel, thats also how mine was. But inorder to HAVE a strong and healthy relationship with your new BF, you need to forget that old relationshiop and fully emerse yourself into this new one. Thats the only way you can begin to trust him :) i hope that my advice helps? :)
Honestly, its up to the girl, but she needs to make her choice quick before both guys give up on her.
My boyfriend gets upset when I say I love one of my friends or I love music etc Are there different kinds of love that can be applied to both situations?
Definitely. You can love music, food, a friend, a pet, etc. Your boyfriend sounds like a moron
This question makes no sense. However, Me- Je You - Tu Both love - les deux amour We both love = nous aimons
You choose by the person that makes you feel more comfortable. Chose whoever makes you laugh, blush, and happy. You need someone who also understands you better than the other one. Breakups aren't easy but you'll get over all that stuff. Choose whoever your heart wants to be with. Answer Love t…he one you are with. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Now that I've given you all the cliches, you need to know that it is a life skill to NOT leave someone for someone else. Ever. You leave because they are not working out for some reason--take another look at the guy you are with. (MORE)
Sing him the song Irreplaceable by Beyonce, then dump him and see how impossible it will be for him to replace you.