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What do you do when you fall in love with your best friends husband?
Answer A friendship is a friendship and a romantic attachment is something else. I really don't think we "get" people do do anything -- much less "fall in love". … Either someone develops romantic feelings towards us or they do not; it's not something within our realm of control. Presumably there's been a prior romantic attachment in this case that didn't work out for some reason and, I assume, the relationship continues as a "friendship". If someone's pulled away emotionally or if it hasn't worked out for some reason, there's probably a good reason. Why not just accept that and move on emotionally? Answer# 2 You want them to like you, like them, kinda like when your smiling, the whole world smiles at you, you know the song. As the relationship matures, keep liking them, building to loving them, without expectation, but show you like them without apology, JUST LIKE THEM... Be always glad to see them, if turned down, do as Jesus said, love anyway. Go the extra mile, cause the first mile belongs to them, the second one belongs to you.
that's hard because if u want to date him or something or tell him how you feel it could reck it........ but i say go for it... maybe find out before hand how he feels bout u.….. then go for it! u have to take risks
Tell them how you feel, dont come onto them too hard, you might ruin your friendship x
How should you deal with falling in love with your husbands best friend when the feeling is not mutual and the friend lives with you both?
Answer well you should talk to your husband and ask him to ask his friend to move out cuz you dont feel comfortable having sex with him when he is in the house works ev…ery time Answer think of all the good time you have had with your husband and why you married him and not the friend.and grow up ,do not hurt your family and friend over a crash.thick about it hard
You didn't say if your best friend was in love with your husband. If she isn't and she hasn't been flirting with him then don't take it out on your friends. Friends are irrep…laceable, but husbands aren't! If they are both in love with each other then kick this waste of hide out the door. Pack his bags and tell him to hit the bricks! Also communicate to your best friend that it's over. There is simply no excuse for cheating. Your husband should have had the guts to tell you privately and come clean. If you can, once you have kicked him out try to get a bit of a vacation in so you can clear your mind. You are very hurt, angry and will go through a type of grieving process. Many women feel they have lost their looks to being a poor wife or mother and this is not always true. Learn to be more independent and stand on your own two feet. This is not the end of your life, but simple another chapter in your life. I was divorced before as my husband cheated and I filed for divorce and later met a wonderful man that I have been married too for 36 years. As hurt as I was at my first husband cheating on me, I came to realize that 'thank God, he did because I wouldn't have met the wonderful man I am married to now.'
because you are pressured into it through your nerves and hormones are telling you to but then again theres nothing wrong with that
Yes, it is very possible. But, if you have been friends with that person for awhile, I would advise not to ask this boy/girl out. Yes, yes i have dated my best friend before..…. It lasted a few weeks. But, after when her and I broke up, when I expected for everything to be back to normal, that didn't happen. Are friendship is not and will never be the same. So, before you start dating your best friend, i would go over the pros and cons of it.. But if you do start to date your best friend.. Good Luck..
Uncork 'er and pork 'er.
If you love your husband, don't let it progress any farther. Explain to the friend that it's impossible, and you would appreciate him cooling it, or you will have to talk abou…t it with your husband. PS: This man is no longer your husband's best friend, although your husband does not know it yet.
i hope you are a girl and he is a boy. if that is the case then that is the best way to fall in love. you need to know each other to date and you already have that. alot… of the best mariges were best freinds.
Best friends originally gravitate towards each other because they have a lot in common. Then as you mature and become closer sometimes fall in love. It can be a pain in the bu…tt. I know from experience but just make sure as you become lovers you remain best friends because you can be both.
Don't tell her she is not your friend anymore that will just be easier for her to hit on him tell her he is not interested
Then follow your heart. And if he/she doesn't love you back don't ruin your friendship :) Because if you do then you lose a best friend... and a crush. So make sure you get to… know that person more and more each day ^_^ and goodluck!
i think if he is happy with his girlfriend you shouldn't come in between that because is you say your his best friend you wouldn't do that cause that's not what best friends d…o. I think that is he has a girlfriend you have to tell yourself to let your friend be happy and let fate discide what happens
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It is quite common for two friends of the opposite sex where one of them falls in love with the other. One day just tell your best friend that it would be an adventure to real…ly go out on a date as a couple and by saying it this way you save yourself any embarrassment if they prefer to remain friends or, they may well feel the same way you do.
i don't know why i love with him best friend