What do you do when your husband says he does not want to be with you anymore yet he will not leave your home?

Answer 1

Change the locks and fast!

If it is actually YOUR home and not a home you bought together call the police, he's trespassing.

You'll have to ask him to leave, leave yourself or go to a lawyer and the lawyer can decide who gets the house.

You have him served Or-- you can go out of your way to make him WANT to leave. Bwahahahahaha!

It probably means he's too much of a loser to find or afford a place of his own. Kick him out and help him to grow up even more. At the very least, let him leach off of someone else.

Will you be physically safe? Maytbe you should consider changing the locks....

Has he said why he doesn't want to be with you anymore? It's a pity he didn't say anything before this..... you could have worked together on healing your relationship.

Is he sure he doesn't want to be with you (if he doesn't why is he still there?)....

If the property is jointly owned or if the couple reside in a community property state neither spouse can force the other to leave the residence, nor can either spouse impede the other's access and rights to the property.

If the issue is one of domestic violence, the authorities should be notified and the victimized spouse should apply for a restraining order in the court of jurisdiction.

Other than that, one of the parties will need to file for a dissolution of marriage and the property ownership issues will be determined by the laws of the state of residency.

Ask him why.

None of us want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with us. Find out what you need to do so that you don't lose out to abandonment of the house. If possible, move yourself out and move on without him. Caution--if he has health problems, this may be a symptom of depression and he was just saying it, without meaning. As the person above said, it looks like you need more information.

For Certain, You Better not Leave!

The most likely reason why your husband does not want to leave is that he is already considering a divorce and contemplates his rights to your "in common" property. If that is the case - and I can not be certain that it is - you should not leave under any circumstances. I know that there is a great temptation to get away from him and leave, but, most likely, that is exactly what he wants you to do.

Call a lawyer.

Answer 2

It depends on whose house it is. If the house is that you both bought together then you can not do anything . But if you owns that house you can definitely call police that he is trespassing.