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Something similar happened to me before. I found out 6 months after it happened and all I remember thinking was that he lied. He was never going to tell me, he lied, he kept this from me. That's really what went through y head, not the actual physical part of the cheating itself but the feeling of betrayel because the trust is broken....that hurts worse.

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Q: What goes through a wife's head if her husband cheated on her and only found out because his mistress husband told her?
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