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What if your best friend tells you he loves you what should you do I dont want to rurin the friendship if things dont work out I am so confused How do i know if i should pursue a relationship?
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∙ 14y ago
Only enter a relationship if your heart really tells you to. Think of the times before you went into a relationship and how you felt then. Is it the same way you are feeling now? For example, being excited about being with him? If not, then it's best to stay friends. This is one of the hardest situations to be put in because if you tell him that you only want to stay good friends then most likely the friendship will not be as close as it used to be. It will never be the same because he will feel that he needs the space to get over this.
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What do you do if you like the same guy as your friend but she does't know it?
Friendships often last longer than intimate relationships, so you have to decide what's more important to you - your friendship with this girl or a relationship with a guy that probably won't last as long as the friendship could. I would recommend that neither of you pursue this guy, and try finding boyfriends that aren't going to conflict with your friendship.
What to do when you and your friends ex have great feelings for each other and really want to pursue it... we really like each other and we had these feelings even when they where together?
As long as you are single the first thing you should do out of courtesy is to talk to the friend's ex and explain your feelings and you would like to pursue the relationship. 'Ex' means the relationship is over so either your friend can accept the two of you will be seeing more of each other or you may have to walk away from that friendship. Other than being honest with the other partner in the picture there is no reason (only if you feel you both love each other) that you can't pursue the relationship.
You and y friend really like the same guy What should you do?
Then you should probably talk to your friend about this problem. If it will affect your friendship, you both should not pursue him. Make your own personal decision about this situation.
Is it appropriate to date your ex boyfriends friend?
Dating the friend of an ex can be a very sticky situation. There are many things you should consider before engaging in such a pursuit, such as.... Will this end your ex's friendship with their friend? On what note did you and your former partner's relationship end, and would he, or has he possibly disclosed any "classified" information? What is the reason for wanting to pursue your ex's friend...is it love, revenge? Granted that if your ex is not okay with their friend dating an ex partner, and the friend does this anyway, their friendship may not be as close as they thought, all of these things, and sometimes more, must be considered beforehand.
What happens when you love someone who is gay?
If you are the opposite gender from the gay person, then move on. You cannot pursue a relationship or expect anything from the other person, beyond friendship.
What should someone do if she fell in love with her best friend but does not want to destroy the friendship?
It depends on if you want to pursue a relationship with your friend, and are realistic about what may or may not happen. Any number of people have had great relationships develop with a long term friend. Sometimes the friend does not reciprocate the feelings and you may need space from them for a time until you feel more comfortable around eachother. The friendship, at least on your side, is already altered. If you decide not to tell your friend how you feel, you may feel hurt or resentful when they date other people, or you may evenutually get past your crush. Why does falling in love destroy a friendship? The best kind of love is built on a deep friendship first. How can you love someone and not be a friend? Married couples are always friends first and lovers second.
Why girls only like you like a friend?
This is a compliment. When a girls states "I like you as a friend" means that your a really nice guy and your doing something right. She may not want to pursue anything more as to not mess up a special friendship.
How do you begin to date your ex-girlfriend's good friend?
Before you date her, perhaps consider the adverse effect it could have on your friendship with your ex-girlfriend, your friendship with her friend, or even their friendship with each other. Coming between women can be a dangerous business. If you're sure you want to pursue her friend, then be nice to her. Talk to her. Let her get to know you as your own person, rather than just as her friend's ex-boyfriend. After a little bit, let her know you'd like to date her and then let her decide how she wants to proceed.
You have knowen this women for 8 years and you love her and she loves you as a friend not as a lover what do you do she won't even date me or have sex but she wants me to her guy friend and stillgoout?
If she ever wanted to take your relationship to the next level she would have done it by now. If you value your friendship with her then don't pursue her any further. Find another girl to date, maybe if she sees what a great catch you are she will see you in a different light.
Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friends girlfriend?
no it isnt......it is wrong if you do somthing about it........it would be better to love from afar... if they breakup you do not take the opportunity if your friend still has feelings for her ok...
WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOUR BEST FRIEND LIKES THE SAME GUY AS YOU?
You have two choices you can make. The first choice is to ignore your friend's feelings and pursue this guy on your own. This can cause obvious problems with your friend. The second choice, and probably the best, is to openly discuss your feelings with your friend. Ultimately you must ask yourself what you value more, your friendship, or a possible romantic relationship with this guy. Don't listen to them. I was talking to my best friend, who i love. And she said that she thought that neither of us having him would be best. But I really like him and he likes me. It's an impasse really.
What do you do when you like the same guy as your best friend?
You have two choices you can make. The first choice is to ignore your friend's feelings and pursue this guy on your own. This can cause obvious problems with your friend. The second choice, and probably the best, is to openly discuss your feelings with your friend. Ultimately you must ask yourself what you value more, your friendship, or a possible romantic relationship with this guy. Don't listen to them. I was talking to my best friend, who i love. And she said that she thought that neither of us having him would be best. But I really like him and he likes me. It's an impasse really.
