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What is it called when someone falls in love with the person who saves them?
There are different terms used to describe a person who falls in love with the person that saves them. Florence Nightingale Syndrome or Knight in Shining Armor Syndrome is used to describe this phenomenon.
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There is no special thing you have to do to fall in love; it's just something that gradually happens. Falling in love takes time, and when you are in love you may not even kno…w it, also you might get butterflys in your tummy when you are around him/her or when his/her name is mentioned. There is no "how", because if you are human, you will undergo puberty and at one point will start feeling attracted to the opposite gender. A few ways to know are in love are: Your pulse gets faster when you either see, hear about, or talk to the person. You may get sweaty, you may forget how to talk :), or you may have the desire to go do something nice for them.
Is it possible for a Narcissist in a loveless marriage to fall in love with someone else and be a better person?
Anything is possible these days as we all want to be loved and if we are in a useless marriage where's the fun in that. Answer Narcissists …"fall in love" in the idealization stage. They become a "Better Person" only because they are pretending to be what the idealized target wants him to be. He can only pretend so long (because he is ....human ???) The facade crumbles at the precise moment he realizes the other to be a human being with human needs and emotion. Trust me I have seen this before my very eyes when i first though as you did that he met soul mate and was a better person - so he appeared to be. Thing is all of his loveless realtionships were at one time idealized and reeked of true love when he first met them. Yes all of us want to be loved but for the N he has no reference point of love and cannot maintain a meaningfull relation ship with another human being. It can only be with an image of himself and what he idealizes in another person which is really an extension of himself. It has nothing to do with who the other person really is. Answer Don't forget that may have told you he was in a loveless marriage but did his wife tell you that too? I suspect not. Yes and yet it was loveless for HIM because narcs are incapable of loving. So don't think for one second that he has "fallen in love" with you. He hasn't. And he will never love you either. You are an object to him. Sorry
I think we do this for multiple reasons. The heart will always want what the heart wants whether the person is attainable or not. You can't control who you love or why..…... You just do. If this person is commited to someone else, you need to move on. Don't hold onto that last ounce of hope that they will be with you in the end. You will end up destroying the person you are and putting your life on hold for something that may never be. In the end, you will be hurt, just like you are hurting now. Sooner is better than later.
Hmmm, depends on the situation. I would say let yourself be in love but if you really want to avoid it. here what you can do: 1. make a list of things, why you can't be with …them 2. concentrate on their faults, and knick pick at it 3. avoid contact with them basically to avoid falling in love with anyone you have to make yourself hate them. *caution: like hot and cold, love and hate when taken to the extreme are both the same emotion and they are both hard to let go. so take heed because before you realize it you'll just be in love with the hate foor that person.*
You can't do anything. If you don't want to fall in love with them then distance yourself from them. But you need to think if i didn't like them then why am i falling in love …with them? If you wish to fall in love with them then let yourself, but nothing lasts forever and there's a difference between 'lust' and 'love'. I f you love them, GO FOR IT!!
When a person falls in love with, or has positive feelings towards their captors, it is known as Stockholm syndrome.
Answer You can't get anyone to do something they don't want to. You can't change others, only yourself. What you can do is show your affection and respect. ma…ke your intentions known and disply all the qualities in yourself worthy of love. If it's the right match, the other person will develop similar feelings.
If you can ask you are either too young or too callous There is a persistent joy in having someone who knows all of your stories, and enjoys you more for them, as well as look…ing forward to making new ones with you. There are the physical work outs which do not hold the same meaning without the excitement you can find in sharing the rest of yourself with someone.
No.It may feal like love but it's more like infactuation.Thats not to say it won't grow into love.Are you sure he feels this way about you? Mr Paradise Everyone talks …as if they know what love is...You see love is everyone's own definition of it..so if you feel you fell in love with this person than who is to say you can't be?Love is so hard to find and EVERYONE looks for it even if they say they don't.If you have found it..why let it go?Tell him how you feel and see what happens.. There is no exact definition of love. There are many different kind of loves that you can have and sometimes it will just hit you at others it takes time to let that love grow into something so amazing and you will know when you fall in love with someone it will hit you in the face..
Falling in Love is quite complicated. There are just so many contributing factors that we need to put intoconsideration. Particularly on the men's side. Most of the ladies t…oday are attracted to guys with fancy things and a lot of cash at their disposal. Some like a man because he is very good in doing something. Some seek for good looks. Some seek for fun loving people. Some seek for sexy eyes. Some are into the voice. The list is endless. But at the end of the day. There has to be something about you that will make you appealing or amazing. Find something that you can do. Do it Good. Do it Better. Do it Best. Regularly Work out (physically). Look good. Find something to keep you occupied most of the time. Something positive and No woman likes a fat **s that sits at home all day doing nothing but watch football. Try to be smart always. Clean teeth , fresh breath, nice shave, clean hair cuts and try to do away with those body odors. Accumulate a few gadgets. Work for a nice house , then a nice car, buy some furniture and other things. Not that women are materialistic they need evidence that you will be able to support the family and take care of them Life is never really that easy You have to work for everything worth having Lastly Develop a positive attitude Alternative Methods: You can also try: Voodoo, Love Potions / Spells, and Stalking - results seem to be varied on each of these, but most end with you in a mental institution or jail. IE: You can't make someone fall in love with you, sorry but you just can't do it, accept that "Love" (by whatever definition you use) is not something that can be forced or coaxed. If you're in the same class, and stuff, you can talk to him. Talk until you have nothing else to say. Then just ask him. Or confessing, a better word. If he talks into games, talk along with him and play with him. I fell in love with someone too :D Act cute; don't try to be completely different but if you don't feel like how you are acting you can always change a little I have a ton of boyfriends, and all I had to do was hang out with them a lot at our spare time, and act cool. Flip your hair, (if you have long hair) and say ``Who cares?`when the teacher says a question. Make sure the teacher never heard it though. #2 The following methods are based on the psychology of falling in love: Meet his criteria: No matter how people say that they are not too choosy, inside their minds is a quick list of basic criteria. And before even considering dating a person, these criteria must be met. Meeting his criteria does not automatically make him/her love you. But not meeting it makes you lose the chance of him/her falling for you. Examples of basic criteria could be stuff like: Must be a non-smoker Must be in good shape Must be non- religious/religious Must have a sense of humor etc. Find out his background and try to meet his/her mental checklist. Doing this will avoid the possibility of him mentally rejecting you as a potential bf/gf before he gets to know you. Show that you're what he needs: People are unconsciously attracted to people who are similar or posses the quality they want to have themselves. For instance, an intellectual but shy guy will look for a partner who is also intellectual but more confident than he is. So, in this case is to play the role of a confident woman so you can attract this type of guy. By send the impression that you're what he needs, this becomes very effective. Program his subconscious mind: Make sure you're always in sight so he gets to see you a lot. This is enough to let you enter his subconscious mind. Your next step would be to reinforce your subconscious mind programming with the help of your friends. Have them constantly talk about you to him/her. It is much better if you can have mutual friends do it for you. The more they talk to him about you and you awesome you are, the better your chances of staying in his subconscious mind. Position yourself well: Try to be associated with the "confident", "independent", or "funny" type not the "inferior", "nerdy", or "clingy" type. Make sure that when people hear your name or think of you, what they have are positive thoughts of you. This way you are assured that he/she will be interested and want to be associated with you.
you cant make them but b yourself if they dont love you 4 u they dont love you at all
Answer 1. After spending the night with you they will kiss your cheek softly when saying goodbye in the morning so as not to wake you. 2. They will gently touch… you whenever they can. 3. You will feel them looking at you when you are not looking at them. 4. They will notice when you are upset and genuinely ask you if you are alright. 5. They will listen to your stories even if they have heard them before. 6. They will change plans to be with you. 7. They will kiss you just to kiss you and not try to get any further. 8. You will feel close to them even when they are away. 9. They will call you when they are with their friends just to say hi. 10. They will ask you to meet their family, friends, pets, and anyone else who is important to them. 11. They will ask what you think about important decisions they have to make. 12. They will follow your advice. 13. They will care for you when you are sick. 14. They will do their best to make you happy even when you are taking out your problems on them. 15. When they yell at you they will apologize and mean it. 16. They'll tell you how amazing they think you are while making sure they are looking in your eyes. 17. When you drunk call them late at night and ask to come over they will say yes and then just be content with wrapping their arms around you and holding you until you fall asleep (or pass out). 18. They will stick up for you to their friends. 19. They will do things that they don't find interesting that you want to do and then find them interesting because you find them interesting. 20. THEY WILL TELL YOU!!
Well a fear of love is called Malaxophobia so someone who is afraid to fall in love would be a Malaxophobe
If you fall in love with someone it's because they are attractive to you in some way. If you try override your own feelings by taking on board the personal views of… others you'll end up confused and possibly lonely. Make up your own mind. What's attractive to you isn't necessarily attractive to others; just as well, or we'd all be chasing after the same person!
There is a song in the VeryPoter Musical. Ron and Mouthboy sing I`m falling in love with herminie Granger.
In Teen Dating
Yes, it is quite possible. If you are younger, say a teenager, then developing crushes is natural. When you're a teen, you're not in "love;" it's just a crush. After a while…, you'll start to perhaps notice differences between you and the person who you like. These differences may be the thing that sets you apart. Or you might just lose interest in the person. But, yes, it is actually likely for a teenager to quickly fall in and out of love. I have found that once you find a love interest in another person, even if the relationship breaks up there is always a place in your heart for them.