My VERY brief answer--
1. gender dysphoria. Google that. Ask yourself WHY do you want to be a lesbian girl?
how long have you had the interest?
2 About BDSM: I would wonder how much you know and have experienced regarding BDSM.
Being 16...it seems you have your sex hormones flowing intact---so sexual awareness is in you---but the ability to see the bigger picture is NOT there---since you do not have enough life experience---or wisdom or experience (no matter how much you THINK you have..you'll have more experience at 26 and 56!) than you do now!
Call the SFSI San Francisco Sex Information Helpline--or another similar place--to help you. Read more books on ALL these topics!!
It sounds like you may be exploring your gender identity and sexual preferences, which is completely normal at any age. However, it's important to take your time and seek support from a therapist or counselor who can help you navigate these feelings in a healthy way. It's okay to not have a label right now and to give yourself the space to figure out what feels right for you.
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BBC is not much of a BDSM term.
Yes. Sex shops in the UK also sell 'bdsm' items.
BDSM, Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission /
Bondage-discipline- sadomasochism
There are no statistics on this subject to give you a percentage, but in my personal experience, a majority of the lesbians I have spoken to about the matter have been interested in BDSM.
Everyone who is into BDSM is into for there own reason. The use of it is to make people happy and to make there life better. Some do it just for the fun of it on weekends and some live 24/7 in the life. There is no one way that is right to do BDSM, its just what works for each person.
both of them
Bondage , disiplende , sadomasochism
marks after brutal bdsm sessions
_____ ^^used in BDSM and bondage (Y)
It is just their fasination.