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Beating a Red-Headed Step-Child Input from contributors: "Beating you like a red-headed stepchild" refers to a terrible beating. It is a variation of "beating you like a rente…d mule."Etymology (the origin of words and phrases) is notoriously hard to pin down. The etymology of this one obviously has something to do with child abuse. Some clues to the origin of its specifics:A stepchild is often presumed to be less favored than biological children. If a parent was abusive, a stepchild might get the worst of it. (Similarly, a rented mule would be less valuable than one you own.)A child having red hair might be an indication that they have a different father, thereby reinforcing that they are a stepchild.Red hair is often associated with a fiery personality. (Similarly, a mule is considered an especially stubborn animal.) It could be linked to the Viking invasions experienced in Britain and Ireland in the 11th century. The Vikings came down from their area, pillaged and raped and left a few red-headed children. Being so obviously different from the rest of the children in the area, they were subject to discrimination by parents knowing their origin was from an invading source. I can imagine that these children would have suffered the wrath of the local population who could obviously identify them as products of the Vikings violent influence on their culture. They were an easy target to vent the frustration of this phenomenon of force. I believe that it can definitely be attributed to the Viking era, a European experience of not fitting in.It is a slang insult born of violence that has become a catch phrase. It means "to beat you extremely", assuming that in anger or frustration you would beat a redheaded stepchild more than any other child because she/he is less desirable - both for being a stepchild and for being redheaded. In the poorer classes one might beat a stepchild more than their own because they care less for them than their own child. The redheaded part may be a reference to the hotheadedness that redheads are supposed to be prone to, which would incite the beating all the more. It is probably anonymous, coming from less educated people who use and make up their own slang frequently.It may have arisen from the feudal/medieval practice known as jus primae noctis. This was an ancient privilege of the lord of the manor to share the wedding bed with his peasants' brides. This right was depicted in the film Braveheart. The English declare they will "breed out" the Scots by introducing the ancient English custom, giving noblemen the right to sleep with the bride on the night of a tenant's marriage. Jus primae noctis was also said to have been practiced in Ireland where it passed with title to the land as part of the land rights. A first-born child might have been assumed to be the offspring of the landlord, would be a de facto stepchild, and may have been treated differently from other offspring.I believe everyone is over thinking the question just a tad bit. The phrase beat you like a red headed stepchild came from the musical and show Annie. It was all about her getting beat with the brush by her step-mom. Let's try to keep it real everyone; and not try to show off intelligence. The origin of the phrase "red haired step child" dates to the 1830's & 40's when Irish emigrants began arriving in America. The newly arrived Irish were somewhere below free blacks on the social scale at the time, and lived in segregated communities. Then, like now, young men were having sexual relations with young women before marriage. Sometimes the men were Irish and the girls were not. This resulted in many out of wedlock children with that red Irish hair. When these young women did finally marry, usually to a young man not of Irish descent, the new husband was not particularly patient or sympathetic to the red haired step child and treated them harshly. The phrase is derogatory although many do not know its origin, it is still considered an insult to knowledgeable people of Irish descent, and should be avoided in polite conversation. My answer is to put in bold print the actual answer given amongst all the theories. It refers to someone having an unloved step-child who was clearly of Irish origin. So great was prejudice against the Irish that signs in front of restaurants, bars or hotels used to say, "No dogs or Irish".It is a wholly nasty term born in the American south, by slave owners, that speaks to abusive hatred aimed at Red Headed Male children. The English aren't the only ones who display a clear prejudice to "Gingers", in fact as a "Ginger" Male, I can tell you that I can spot a decent human being from an awful excuse for a human being, just based on the way they treat me, Having grown up in New York, far from England, almost 150 years and several hundred Miles removed from the despicable Old south. Sadly it will be the last prejudice that anyone ever addresses.Stepchildren were often mistreated, as opposed to the way biological children were treated. The red-headed stepchild is kind of like saying, "look at the milk man". In other words, a child in the family who may not belong to the Dad. In other words, a child with two strikes against him/her.I think all the explanations above are written by people trying to avoid the unpleasant and far more basic meaning: A step child would get beaten more than a biological child. As redheads are traditionally disliked and picked on, a redheaded stepchild would get an even worse beating! Nasty, simple, basic.One aspect of this idiom is the fact that some children are evidence of adultery or cuckoldry simply because of genetic markers that are commonly understood. An awful variation of this is the "ni**er in the woodpile" phrase, meaning that a child was the product of bi-racial parents, though the white mother is married to a white husband. The red-hair trait is recessive, so it is uncommon for a couple with darker hair to produce a red-haired child, just as it is unlikely for a light, European couple to produce a dark, African-featured child. The appearance of a genetically anomalous child to a genetically similar couple leads to doubts about the child's true parentage, and is a public shame to the husband. The idea of a child who seems to be a product of adultery would be a constant insult or shame to the husband in question, which could engender inappropriate anger in place of reasonable discipline. Therefore one would "beat his redheaded stepchild" more violently than other children. The term "Stepchild" may come from the husband knowing that the child is not his, a defacto "Stepchild", or it may come from the fact that a child is an actual stepchild, from a father from a different genetic background. Where a genetically similar child might be taken as a son, a genetically dissimilar one is a shame to the husband.
It means that you (or the person) shouldn't be self-critical. Another way of saying that would be "Don't be so hard on yourself", or "You are your own worst enemy".
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Not certain, but my money is on Jack Kerouac. Jack Kerouac was definitly essential in the whole beat generation. His 1st book, On the Road. A review appeared in the New York T…imes Weeks later proclaiming Kerouac as the voice of a new generation. The term "Beat Generation" was invented by Kerouac during a conversation held with fellow novelist Herbert Huncke. "Beat" to describe someone living with no money and few prospects. "Beat to my socks," he said. Huncke coined the phrase "Beat" in a conversation with Jack Kerouac, who was interested in how their generation would be remembered. "I'm beat," was Huncke's reply, meaning tired and beat to his socks. Kerouac used the term to describe an entire generation.
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音楽のビートOngaku no bīto
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Depending on the context, it could mean a quick stop somewhere, meaning "I'm going in, then coming right back out... in and out." It could mean that there is a back an…d fourth motion occurring within something, like a piston in and out of a cylander. It could also be the title of the film "In and Out"
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It means that you should stop talking about the subject because it's useless and already been talked about enough. (A dead horse won't do anything for you, no matter how many …times you beat it.)
It means, "put it in the (trash) can" -- usually figuratively, not literally. It means put an end to it, stop it. discard it and begin again I always thought it meant to… shut up.
overheard in the loos of a rock gig aimed at a bad one armed drummer.
it bassically means that you will really do anything and your not afraid to do things that other people may want not do... sometimes people say it as a dare devil.... xxx
It is likely linked to the Viking invasions of Britain and Ireland during the 11th century. The Viking invaders raped many women, in addition to causing massive destruction. T…he children produced by these rapes, would have had a significantly higher occurrence of red hair than native Britains due to their Viking parentage. The anger that most Britains had for the Viking invaders, combined with the helplessness of these children would have made them prime targets.
" you need to beat the eggs" "follow the beat of the music" " im gonna beat you up " " go beat him, run faster than him" xoxo Gossip Girl
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The meaning of the phrase by and by is over time or eventually. It means something will take place sometime on the future but not at a specified time.