what is your name? what sports he plays and what Video Games he likes?
AnswerWe all go through this and dating is mind bending adventure at best. The mistake most of us make is looking in the mirror to see what we look like when we smile, what facial expressions we should use, etc. Then we have to think of what to talk about and what not to talk about. My God, it's like a scientific expedition! LOL Forget all that! Have confidence in yourself. If you have good hygiene, your hair is done nicely, your make-up is on (less is best) or you wear no make-up, then put your best foot forward. Young men (even older ones) will look at a girl that is what they classify as a #10 and dressed perhaps in designer clothes or at least high quality clothes, but the odd thing about the male species is they all say one thing, "I love a good old fashioned girl." I talk to a lot of young people and the biggest complaint the young men have is "The girls are too into their weight, diets, and too silly."
So, the simple formula for dating is to do what comes naturally. So you dribble something down the front of your blouse while out eating ... make a joke about it because laughter is the cure all for almost anything. So you belch at the wrong time, or you're terrified you'll "freeze up." Most guys love music, movies and of course sports. If you really like this guy and you find out he loves football, then go on the net and learn about football and some of the players. I did. I astound many of my husband's friends, but to tell you the truth seeing a bunch of sweating, grunting men getting their knees wrecked, and seeing them at the bottom of the pile of 4 or 5 200+ pound players doesn't turn my crank. I learn, so I can keep in the conversation if I'm surrounded totally by men. You don't have to love it to learn about it.
Start off by asking him if he's lived in the same place all his life or has he traveled. He'll probably give you a short run-down. In this day and age it's important your family or friends know who you are dating and what their first and last name is (for your own safeties sake.) The guy is probably a great person, but one can never be too careful. Then start with what type of music he likes and what type of movies. Let nature run it's course and don't try so hard. Remember, it's also up to him to share with you and find out your likes and dislikes.
Most people are very, very shy and although some have it down to a fine art of not showing they are shy and they appear confident ... trust me when I say we all have our fears of failure in relationships. Keep that in mind and that person looking at you isn't 100% confident and they have butterflies flying around in their own stomachs. In my 63 years I've learned that most of us are made out of the same mold and we all have the same feelings and once you learn that, the rest is easy.
Good luck Marcy
If you're in high-school just talk to him about any recreational things he does, his classes, how he likes the class.. Then once you start hanging out more just talk to him like you would any other friend.
The most important thing you must remember is to never seem nosy. One question you could ask is, What were your past relationships like?, or things like, Who ended the last relationship?, Why?. Let him know that you want to get to know him but you also want honest answers. Another question you can ask is, Why are you interested in a relationship with me?
hope this helped ! <3
If he likes cats. What kind of car he drives. If he plays an instrument. If he his job. Oh and, ask whether or not he's got a special interest in anyone special.
This is only if you're just meeting him.
If you know him, get a little more personal with your questions. But not "too" personal.
Well the good questions should be like where he lives, his favorite things, some things you both have in common with.
But if you are a guy you can ask if he likes anything like the girls would say but not so girly and a little more sporty.
You should not ask of personal stuff when you meet. All you can ask is about professional and work life.
ask him his interests and small talk things
A good question will be if hes married.
ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. or ask him questions to get to know him better.
ask him how he aonestly feels about you
ask him what he likes to do for fun
Smile and ask him questions about himself . If he says anything, ask him more questions about what he said.
There is no (way) to ask a guy out. Just simply ask him!
Does he play sports, fav. things, friends, recent movies, etc. If you relate with them they will at least be your friend.
Ask him about something he loves
If you mean, why does the guy im dating never ask and questions about me, then I would say he might be a little uneasy about it. Maybe you should ask him why?? If he is not asking questions its because he is only interested in one thing. If he was looking for a long term relationship then he would attempt to ask questions.
some good questions would be to ask are what was the material made out of
only when they ask stupid questions