What should you do if someone is obsessed with you?

Answer 1

Tell as many people as possible. Scrutiny is the only way to stop obsession. --Answer-- Have you clearly notified the person not to contact you again? A simple phone call or email (not in person!) clearly stating for them to stop contact will separate the 'needs to get a clue' idiot from the 'doesn't care that their behavior disturbs you' harasser. The worst thing to do is to give the person any attention, positive or negative, from now on. Act absolutely indifferent to them, even if you don't feel that way. It's important to document and save any further contact they make to you (calls, emails, etc) so that you have evidence of their actions should you feel the need to report them to the police. You can also change your phone number, email, etc., and only give them out to a few select, trusted people. Don't put personal info or your schedule on a myspace page; make your myspace profile private. Be more vigilant about your surroundings. Notify family, friends, etc. not to give out your personal information to anyone, especially to this person.

Answer 2

Ask yourself, do you like her back? If so go for her. If not tell her thetruth but in a nice and honest way. Always include the phrase"we can still be friends."

My response- It's hard to tell you what to do when your question is so vague, but: If the girl has told you in some way that she is interested in you, and you are not interested in her, the first thing you should do is tell her (POLITELY) that you are not interested.

Unless you have some kind of proof that the girl is stalking you, or is a danger to you in some way, there's really nothing else for you to do. If you do have proof, first talk to a trusted, responsible adult about your concerns and try to work it out as peacefully as possible. You may need to seek legal action.

If the girl is just annoying, but not dangerous, just remind her that you aren't interested, and ignore her. Chances are that she will give up on you in a while.

Please keep in mind that you may be worrying over nothing. She may not understand that you are bothered. She may even just be trying to be your friend.

Answer 3

It might be hard, but just tell them the truth. Tell them how you really feel and try to say it nicely, so the person will understand and not get mad.

Answer 4

Report her actions to an authority. Sue her.