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What should you do if you found out your husband of 23 years has been having an 8-year affair but he ended it to save your marriage and then a month later slept with another woman?
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∙ 18y ago
It sounds like you need to slow down and start seeing the signs of cheating that always were there. You were either too busy to catch these signs or you were in denial. No, he didn't leave the other women to save your marriage ... he either grew tired of her or she grew tired of him. He's a cheater, always will be and you need to face it. Kick this guy to the curb. The next time he comes home have his bags packed and kick his cheating butt out that door. If he refuses to go, then see your lawyer and file for divorce. Half of everything he owns (including his pension, etc.) belongs to you. We can all make mistakes and cheating can be one of them and some people do it once and learn from it and go back to their mates. Your husband is not one of these people and he's always going to be a cheater. What he is saying to you is, "I don't care about your feelings or that we have had 23 years of marriage. I'm a spoiled child and I want what I want and I don't give a damn what you want!" Men do go through what they use to nicely refrain to as "Midlife Crisis" but have since found out it's just plain old Male Menopause. Some men will grow a little weary, less energetic, a little depression, mood swings, while other men are fearful of growing older (like some women) and they will have flings with younger women to prove to themselves that they are still attractive. They need to prove their manhood. They are idiots, because 98% of these women will dump these guys and it isn't his looks they are after. It's gifts, money and anything else they can get out of him. The other 2% may honestly love each other. Get your pride back, stand straight and tall and kick his keister right out that door. You deserve better! I kicked my ex husband out the door and if I hadn't done that I wouldn't have met and married a wonderful guy and we've been married 33 years. Good luck hon Marcy
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∙ 18y ago
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If another woman if having affair with your husband what charges can you file on her she is my niece?
None. Having an affair is not a criminal matter for her. I don't know what country you live in, but maybe your husband is guilty of some adultery crime.
Does a man always get custody when there is an affair?
No, a man does not always get custody. If one of the people in a marriage has an affair, it is usually the person not having an affair that gets custody of the child or children.For example, if the husband is having an affair, and the wife wants a divorce, the woman (wife) would get the custody of the child or children, and not the man (husband). This is the same vice versa, too.
Can you sue your husband for having an affair?
No
Is it wise to tell you husband you are having affair?
The question shouldn't be 'is it wise to tell my husband I'm having an affair,' but why are you having the affair? If life is too intolerable for you living with your husband then have the guts to face it and not hurt his feelings by being irresponsible and selfish by hurting his feelings because one day he will find out. Once you have broken that bond of trust then in many cases there is no salvaging the marriage. Put yourself in his shoes. You are having an affair because something is missing in your marriage and neither you or your husband appear to have made much of an effort to communicate better or get marriage counseling. Wives or husbands can always go for separation and strike out on their own to clear their minds as to what they really do want in life. By having this affair you are not going to fill the hole you feel in yourself and it could lead to other affairs. It is up to you to decide if you continue the affair behind your husband's back, but if you do be prepared for the reality you could be losing someone very precious in your life.
What are the symptoms when your husband has an affair?
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
Does your husband has more chemistry with the woman he's having an affair with than he does with you?
Yes, that is why he is having an affair.
Can a wife be arrested for slapping a women that is having an affair with her husband?
Yes, striking another adult is assault and/or battery.
Why has a woman written you a letter telling about an alleged affair she's had with your husband?
Because (a) they were having an affair and they broke up, so she wants to spoil your marriage, or (b) because she has a grudge against him, e.g. at work
How does Hester's husband feel about Hester's mistake?
Hester's husband, Roger Chillingworth, feels betrayed and vengeful about Hester's mistake of having an affair and bearing a child with another man. He goes to great lengths to conceal his identity and seek revenge on the man responsible for dishonoring his marriage.
Did I do the right thing by telling the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband?
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
What should you do with friend who thinks that you are having an affair with her boyfriend or husband?
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
Is Bianca in eastenders having an affair?
No she is not having an affair. The person she has been calling is actually her husband Ricky. They are using role play.
