What to do if you have a crush on your bestfriend?

Answer 1

Make sure she is the one fore you before trying to get at her (you are better off focusing not just on that one friend) because if you do get with her and the relationship doesn't last long, then you are screwed and have to witness your best friend going out with other guys.

Answer 2

i will tell him/her that i have a crush on cause i would want to know if that person has the same feelings about me..

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Also i would tell him/her cuz they might like you and another person you wudnt want to miss out......

Answer 3

Do whatever feels right for you.

if you want your best friend to know, then tell him/her.

if you want to pretend you don't like him/her because it wouldawkward for you, then don't tell him/her

And if you have really strong feelings for them, talk and learn their likes and dislikes so you can relate and they will find a connection.

Answer 4

You have two choices :

1. Tell him or her and find out how he or she truly feels about you.

2. Keep it to yourself and you keep your friendship-- but this also has disadvantages:

if your close friend also likes you secretly, creating a hidden mutual relationship between the two of you, how else would you know this if neither of you confess?

and if you do keep it to yourself, your friend might fall in love with someone else leaving you rueful for the things you left unsaid.

In my opinion, it is best if you choose to be friends at the moment considering that you are close friends, staying that way assures a relationship that would last longer than actually committing to one another.

Answer 5

DO NOT DATE. IT WILL RUIN YOUR FRIENDSHIP FOREVER! SCREW THE CRUSH, THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA. You talk to her about privately preferably text or some messanger so she can't take it the wrong way. I was in this predicament. I am in 10th and my best friend is an attractive besketball player and we have liked each other secretly for yrs., but we don't want to ruin the relationships, so we just flirt and hang out but dont date for reasons already listed.

Answer 6

Well, the thing is, if your best friend likes you back, then yous go out, your friendship might be ruined after you break up.

Its up to you. But if it was my choice. I wouldn't make a move and risk losing an awesome friendship.

Answer 7

Tell him that you have a crush on him. Talk to him.

Answer 8

if your really friends you should tell her and yall should be able to work it out