Hi there:
First off, you have to decide if you are lesbian yourself. Some women are not, and are just curious. If you feel you are homosexual, (be darn sure you are) then you are going to have to be honest with your husband.
I have to guess that you ended your relationship with your ex lover because of your husband, and I feel if you were truly homosexual you wouldn't have.
Remember your ex lover has feelings as well, so if you have no intention of going back to her, I suggest you call (don't meet anywhere) and tell her in a nice way, you feel you want to work on your marriage, but, if you really love your ex lover, it's time to come clean and be honest with #1 your husband and #2 yourself! You've already hurt your ex and you are going to be hurting hour husband so be sure of how you feel inside.
Good luck Marcy
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First off, Marcy acts like you have to be either straight or gay. This is untrue. It is perfectly possible to be able to love and be sexually attracted to both women and men (bisexual) and it does not mean you are or were simply "curious."
Your orientation doesn't really matter in this case, it's the people that matter. Who do you really want to be with? I don't know the situation, but it seems to me that you have made a commitment to your husband, and if your ex-lover really loves and respects you, she should hopefully at least try to understand if you can't communicate with her since she keeps trying to win you back. You've made your choice, and unless you really feel deep down that you are not happy with your husband, I'd venture that you owe it to him because of your marriage vows to at least try to do whatever it takes to make your marriage work...if it doesn't, that's your decision, and your ex should hopefully respect that.
First off, people are bisexual. Period.
Now to answer the question, you're married. You're in a commitment you've made to spend your life together with him and only him. Now if this person who you used to have a relationship with, whether you were married at the time or not, should be able to see that and respect that. And if not, they want you for themselves. Tell them that's its time to move on and you're with your husband now, that you want to be with your husband, and only your husband. Draw the line and tell them that it just won't happen. Do it respectfully of course. And of course if they just can't respect your opinion, be assertive and tell her it will never happen.
Call him and tell him that if he is to stay in that relationship he should call once or twise or its over!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
There's no one saying you can't. Base it on how you feel. No one on the internet will be able to tell you how you feel. I feel as though whoever wrote that is partially wrong and right. Many people would disagree but I think that yes you should because they are not the ones that can tell you as a person who to date and who not to date. But, also is you were in a lesbian relationship and then you get out of that relationship, if I were u i would give it some time though. but like I said, the desicion is yours.
no shes in a relationship, though. WITH A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
== No one ever forgets their first relationship. Whether the person is a lesbian, a gay male, a straight person, or a bisexual person, no one forgets their first relationship. Especially if this was your first love and/or first sexual relationship, it may take some time to fully get over it. Even though you are in a relationship with a new person, you probably still think about the other person for a while & this is normal. All people have trouble getting over their first relationship, because it is their first. Years from now, you will still remember & think of that first person from time to time, & it is perfectly natural.
This will be difficult if you want a relationship with her. There is no reason why you can't be friends though. Maybe you should tell her how you feel. It would be no use just hanging on in there in the hope she will change as this will just hurt you more. It would probably be better for you if you could find a girl who you can have a relationship with. There are many you will meet as you socialize.
No, she is bisexual. She was married to a man named Mel Leventhal, with whom she had a daughter. After the marriage she had a relationship with Tracy Chapman, though they did not go public. though in her idea of womenism she said that a woman should love another women for their need but she herself didn't indulged in such activities. but she didn't denounced lesbianism.
Your question is too cmplicated... I can't even figure out what you are asking.
That is up to you. Might be better to wait until you know though. If you feel you have to tell someone. Regardless of what you are - you are.
There are several websites that have lesbian adult videos. Most pornographic sites have lesbian videos. My personal favorite, though, is www.fuq.com.
no, it is not possible to "turn" lesbian. It is possible though to be lesbian and not realize it later.
Some women love watching lesbian porn (even though they say they are not a lesbian). Some might disagree about man on man porn though.
Good listner is alwaz a good husband..moreover he should be a liar in praising beauty of his wife even though he is not in a mood to do so.