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The magic words here are "you are not meeting his expectations." This sounds like a boss talking to an employee and he sounds like an ego-maniacal ass! Some women can be too needy and smothering by feeling they need to be fused at the hip with their boyfriend or husband and not allowing head space for each other. They may want to go everywhere the other mate does and both should seek freedom with friends and have hobbies of sorts. If a woman is just loving and caring and shows affection this is not being clingy or smothering. The fact he said you broke up with him (odd) because you are clingy and smothering is going to make those he tells wonder about his mental state. Usually it would be him that would break away from you and not the reverse. Never mind what this waste of skin is doing. For one thing, if he really had loved you he wouldn't be airing his dirty shorts out by telling people you split from him. This should be private! He could simply say things didn't work out and leave it at that. He has said his piece to you and you are going to have to accept it no matter how much it hurts. Of course you will feel sad and insecure, but once you get a month or so under your belt from this jerk, you can reflect upon yourself and decide if you are really clingy and smothering and if you need to figure out why and change this in yourself. Women and men should be independent and learn to enjoy spending time with themselves, have hobbies, even volunteer, seek out more education, etc., and not be so reliant on each other. Men love a woman with a little mystery to them and if you are too accommodating then you risk some types of guys of either taking advantage of this or you won't hold onto a relationship for long unless you are lucky to find a super nice guy out there. Start going out with friends and have a good time. Realize what this guy is and know that most women have had at least one jerk in their lifetime so it's nothing to feel embarrassed about. In time you'll feel better about yourself and meet someone that is more compatible for you. Good luck! Well it sounds like this guy has no respect for you first of all, to be speaking of you behind your back no less lying. I would say that you need to make the move, break up with him and move on with your life. Stay single for a little to get a new look on what type of relationship and man you want in your life. Believe me he is out there you just have to be patient and honest with yourself. This guy sounds like a jerk because what expectations does he have of you and if he was a real man, he would have had a honest talk with you to state his likes and dislikes and not be rude to you behind your back. I say be gone with him and find your prince, you deserve a guy that will respect you, be honest with you and treat you well. Good luck, girlfriend.

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Q: What should you do if your ex said he doesn't love you because you are not meeting his expectations and he is telling people you broke up because you are clingy and smothering?
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