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What should you do when your ex is now married but is cheating with you?
Well, heres an Idea! QUIT BEING THE OTHER WOMEN OR MAN!! Why would you still be doing things with him? If you guys get back together I 100% know he will cheat on you! Leave him in the past, and go on! Think about his wife, have you thought about what you would feel like if you were her? Answer Well, it's up to you whether you want to keep cheating with them since you are now the other woman. If you're doing it to try and get him back, forget it. If there's a closeness you feel when it happens, no one can knock you for feeling that way but it's ethically wrong...although ethics are questionable since they're created and modified by people. What's good for one group is never good for another. Either way, enjoy it because usually, sex with the ex does not carry on for ages and the ex always loses out. Answer You deserve more than being the OP (other person) if he really loved you you would not be the second but the first.
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Answer No. No matter what excuse he gives, the main point is that he didn't love you enough to say no to the other women. Nothing has changed since then. Your rela…tionship is not on solid ground. ___________________________________________________________________________________ Not all advise is good advise! Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someone's advise you must consider all that you have to gain or loose. A good relationship is based on dependability, compassion, respect and compromise. You should determine if your relationship is worth it or not by your partner's ability to demonstrate these important qualities. You must determine how many years you can tolerate their worst characteristic becoming more intolerable as the passion you feel, diminishes.
If your ex is married yes it most certainly is. Just because you had been together in the past does not make it ok to have extramarital affairs.
If a married man tells his ex mistress he can't talk to her right now after he's been caught cheating is it because his wife told him not too or something else?
Well being that obviously he disobeyed her once he's not going to not talk to his ex mistress because she told him not to because if he cheated on his wife, he probably doesn'…t care about her so much so he probably just needs some time to think things through.
How do you know if a married man still wants to talk to his ex mistress knowing he always wanted talk to her but after getting caught cheating his wife said not too and now he stopped?
You would only know by asking, but if he has now stopped, the ex Mistress should respect his wishes and leave him alone. ANSWER: Every married men who had an affair and ge…t caught, will always want to talk to their mistress. Imagine the fun that they had together, those few hours that they spent together alone and far away from the world. Those phone calls that they exchange, those stolen moment they think nothing will happened to their relationship. The steepness night they have wondering and fantasizing how good it will feels to be sleeping together. Most men who got caught cheating will be doing what needs to be done so the wife will not have to do some tragic move. From my own experience, the man that I married loves to talk to his mistress every hour of the day and night. But since I discovered his affair, he stopped calling her. But I do know that it was hard for him after all he loves her. Definitely think about the wife - she will be feeling the most hurt that she has ever felt, but if he has stopped you must leave him be.
Okay- so your bf cheated on you. Dump him. If he did that, then you are waaay too good for him, so move on sista!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DUMP HIM. U R WAAY 2 GOOD 4… HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Answer It's best to just forget the guy. No offense, but he probably doesn't care about you that much if he isn't going to be loyal, and he has lost your trust fo…r life. You will be a much happier person just by moving on...there are other guys! It's his loss, not yours and you can do better :)
Chances are, he'll do it again. If you're willing to accept his apologies and forgive him, you will probably find yourself in the same position. Apparently he isn't over his… ex-wife. Divorce is a very complicated thing and it can leave people sore for months or even years afterward. So even though he may be technically single, he seems to be hung-up on his ex. You should probably spare yourself the heartache and move on. This is best for both of you, because it gives you the opportunity to take care of yourself, but also gives him the opportunity to figure out his feelings for his ex that led him to pursue her. Ultimately, however, only you can know if he should be forgiven.
After a married man gets caught cheating by wife what does it mean when he said to his ex mistress he wants to still talk to her but can't right now?
If this is the case, the married man is trying to prove to his wife that he will not be doing what he did. He is trying to make sure that his wife will start to trust him agai…n, and by not contacting his mistress will be the number one on his list. What the wife didn't know is her husband didn't have any plan to stop seeing the other woman. If you are the wife, be wiser this time. Make sure that your husband really meant what he said, or else he will just break your heart all over again. If you are the mistress, think what you are doing to this woman, his wife never did anything to you. She doesn't even know you but you helped her husband to destroy the life they have. If you have an ounce of decency, leave him alone, tell him that you don't want to be the cost of his wife unhappiness.
ANSWER: There are some married men that do, but not all. Lets talk about who does and why, realizing the mistakes that he did, and finding out that he had to loose her to kno…w that his ex is the one. Lots of married men that end up being divorce do regret what they did..
You should be looking after yourself and 'ex' means the relationship is over. If you think it's love with your ex husband it's all about sex and he's using you and his girlfri…end. If anything you should be getting together with his girlfriend and both of you face him with the accusations and both of you dump this waste of skin.
Hate is a natural response especially if you have loved or cared for somone who has hurt you and left your life. That said, hate hurts many people and you'll find it hurts you… the most. There is nothing worse than loving someone and now have bitterness that grows in you. It will stunt your growth and hurt your future. You have been betrayed. Grieve over that now. Read about how ot deal with grief. Read books that teach about healthy relationships (not give you simple answers about things). Take it from someone who was robbed of a lot of years over anger. No situation happens in a vacuum. Your ex is responsible for not treating you as something precious and not treating you and all those involved with value and acting in restraint. However, there are ways you are responsible in how you were treated. To grow and get better we have to have humility to look for that, look for ways that we did not love the other or ourselves in appropriate ways that build trust and committment. My story is that I carried alot of pain over betrayals and 6 years after the fact, I am now dealing with feelings of love for someone who I can see I also wronged in many ways. That person is no longer available to me. Did he do wrong? Yes. But if you go for the emotion of hate, you'll be dealing with this situation again much later than need be. More likely with someone else. You can love someone without ever giving them the love they need. You can love someone who does not have the ability to love you and at times that person communicates that clearly. If you choose to go forward, what use is hating them for what they told you would happen? Better to understand that you are worth more, want more and turn away before your feelings are further engaged. The best protection, I think, is to demystify what is going on in a POTENTIAL relationship before it starts so you can make a good decision and when it is right, you can give your heart to someone who will treat it as a gift to him.
You admit that he is a cheater. Why are you getting married to him? Listen to the vows you will have to hear from him, he will be lying to you, to your face. Don't think becau…se he wants to marry you that it will make him stop. You have to put this wedding on the back burner and have a serious discussion about his loyalty to you and his commitment issues before you make that big commitment to him.
You should tell him soon, but you may also need to explain that you never will do that again - put the blame on yourself. Otherwise, it is a red flag to a future with the …guy. Often the past is repeated in the future, so be careful.
it depends if you have feelings for him as well though . If you do then that's great you should get talking and you never know what will happen. but if you are looking for… a fresh start then i would tell him kindly you want to move on with your life and go for something new you can say this pleasantly with out causing any hurt
It's all up to you. If you feel that person still loves you and you love him, you should talk to each other and fine the answer. But if you think that you don't have those fee…lings anymore, than you shouldn't.
If a married man who has been avoiding his ex mistress after getting caught cheating start to stare or look at her now is that a hint that he wants her again?
Yes and no. There is something more to this than just him staring but dont jump to the idea that he's going to cheat again. I think you need to look at what she is doing and h…ow she reacts to him.