Well first I just gotta say that you should have discussed the problems in your relationship with your spouse and maybe got some counseling, but seeing as you didnt and you have moved on you should tell your spouse now, there is never a good time to tell the person that you promised to be faithful and honest with til death do you part that you have cheated on them and no longer wish to be with them. It is unfair of you to keep dragging your spouse on, and let them live the lie you would call marriage.
I'd forget about telling him just now, and take the rose-colored glasses off and reread the marriage vows you made to your spouse when you believed THEY were the one who would fulfill your life and bring you happiness. Truth is that no one person will do this and it is unfair to expect anyone to...certainly working at happiness is a two way road, and cheating is not one of the roads that lead to it. I'd try to realize the pain this will cause all around. Although you will need to tell him at some point, preferably talk with a counselor who would work to preserve the marriage and even to restore it. Yes, it is possible even if it doesn't seem like a very exciting way. The counselor may be able to advise the best way to break the news. This is, after all, news that is going to tear another person's heart out and great care needs to be taken. The worst thing to do now would be to let things continue in deception as mentioned by the first answerer. I'd fix the underlying problems or they will recur in the future.
No, not really. It may be exciting and pleasurable, but it does not give real happiness.
Losing the person your having an affair on as well as the person that your having the affair with. Having an affair for someone is just that they are cheating but it becomes less of a fling when they have the option to have that person one on one and then its not so interesting anymore. You end up with nothing in the end.
your man does not show you happiness because he might be having an affair with another girl/woman or he might be worrying about the way you feel if he wants to take the relationship a step forward.
It means your married and seeing someone other than your spouse.
No, while she was married to John Kennedy she was not having an affair with Onnasis. Supposidly her sister was though, and there are rumers that she was having an affair with Bobby Kennedy.
Usually by spreading rumors about them doing drugs, or having an affair with someone.
Means you are having an affair with him/her...
yes he is having and affair with here!
I am having an affair with a married woman in north Carolina, have I broken any laws?
Melantho is having an affair with Eurymachus in "The Odyssey" by Homer.
The Happiness of Having You was created in 1975-11.
Ali's father wasn't having an affair. Aria's was. His name was Byron, and he was having an affair with Meredith a woman at his college.