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When you told your boyfriend he had bruised you after 'manhandling' you during an argument he got very angry again and threatened to hurt you further were you wrong to bring it to his attention?
I am not making excuses for him, but he probably got more angry when you showed him because he was embarrassed and suprised at himself. BUT...it was not OK for him to leave bruises or "manhandle" you just because he was angry. You need to try to talk to him about it. If he gets angry again, you will probably have to leave. Tell him you are not trying to make him angry or upset, but you just want to show him how hard he grabbed you, so he won't do it again because you know he wouldn't want to do that to you. If he gets angry or violent, you'll have to leave him to stop it from happening to you again. He may need to go into counseling if it is a regular thing. If it is, you will need some counseling with him and separate. It's better for the relationship that way. Answer Physical abuse (battering) is wrong. Threatening another with physical abuse is wrong. He probably regarded your words as indirect criticism. Abusers hate criticism and react to it - try to drown it - with additional abuse.
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What does it mean if your wife has a very good sex life with you but once showed her butt to her ex-boyfriend and told him that she will let him suck her breasts again one day?
How would a married man act if he wanted to get his ex mistress's attention again when she told him she was going to ignore him at work?
He might "need" her more often, than before, asking her to do stuff for work, just to get her attention. ANSWER: First of all why in a world this man still want to reconnect …with you. Doesn't he care that he already destroyed his life esp. his wife? If I were you, I will ignore him and if he tries to make contact, I will tell him to get lost. Can't trust a man who only think of himself...
Some men are not used to being the 'caregiver' in the relationship. They don't get it that they need to step in and take a little more responsibility. Women are the ones who t…ake care of everything (mostly because we want it done our way), and probably even when we are sick or hurt, we still carry on our duties as if we weren't sick at all and just bear it. When the men are sick since they become nagging 2 year olds, they would understand, appreciate and LEARN that you are able to take care of them and STILL take care of the household. So you would think that when it happens to you, they would step in and do a little more emotionally and physically. NOT Try talking to your man, and communicate to him that you need some help. Wether it's getting a cold rag for your head, or doing the dishes. Most likely he will do what you ask and learn for next time. He will come around. It's called being men. Answer He cares more of himself than of you.
Your boyfriend says you do not pay enough attention to him when you are around other people This is not intentional but he is very hurt by it What can you do since he is upset at you?
In a case like this, you have to compromise with the boyfriend. Apologize and let him know you really mean it. Tell him it wasn't intentional. If the boyfriend is stubborn abo…ut it, give him some space but let him go in a nice way. Something like "Baby I'm sorry i didn't realize i wasn't paying attention to you. I didn't mean to upset you." If the boyfriend is stubborn, say something like this, "Okay baby I'll let you go. I don't want this to turn into some big fight. I hate our fights. I really am sorry though. Mkay, ill talk to you in a few to see how you're feelin."
How can you talk out your relationship problems with your boyfriend if every time you bring them up he gets angry?
How Can You Communicate Your Relationship Problems With Your Boyfriend If He Gets Mad When You Bring Them Up? * Whenever my boyfriend and I get into arguments or we hav…e issues with my relationship sometimes you just need to get mad at each other. No one is happy knowing they have problems with there girlfriend/boyfriend. Just tell them what you need to say and try and calmly explain to them how you feel no matter how upset or angry they get. It is easier to solve problems when they are small not when you let them get larger. * It takes two to be mature and communicate in a relationship and appears your boyfriend is extremely immature unless you are constantly nagging about little things to him. If you have serious problems then explain to him you want to talk out your problems and if he starts to get mad stand your ground and tell him you are not putting up with his immature nonsense any longer and will leave the relationship if he can't sit down like an adult and come to an agreement where you are both happy with the resolve of your problem. If one of the two in the relationship refuses to communicate when there are problems brewing in a relationship then it is doomed. Communication is what glues good relationships together whether it's a boyfriend/husband/family or friends. YOU take control of your life and never settle for less!
2, point yes n no yes because she his lil sis no because she happy
SWEETHEART OF COURSE IT IS GOING TO HURT EVEN IF HE HAD A MEDIUM SIZE IT WILL STILL HURT BUT IF HE HAD A SMALL ONE NOT SO MUCH BUT HOW YOU SAID IT THAT HE HAD A LARGE PENIS TH…EN IT WILL REALLY HURT, YOU MIGHT EVEN BLEED NOW THE BLEEDING PART DEPENDS ON THE PERSON LIKE IF YOU USE TOYS LIKE DILDOS OR VIBRATORS THEN YOUR VAGINA MIGHT STRETCH BUT IT WILL STILL HURT NO MATTER WHAT.
it is damaged tissue
Basically, argumentative people like emphasizing on a single point a lot. And its fine. Go one round. In fact, keep going in rounds until he/she realizes that the argument wil…l lead to no where and stop. If it does not work, just change the topic half way to something silly, and then leave suddenly so the person can realize how silly the arguments were. As for angry people, it depends on what type of character they have. If they are more submissive, just laugh and shrug it off. If they are really aggressive, then try your best to give in. If not, try avoiding sarcastic phrases that could anger the person even more. Maybe even find a chance, look at the person's face really close, then move away. that should dissipate some of the anger. Sorry if it did not help. You see, all these is from experience and television. Haha.
look if you want to impress or get your boyfriend's attention all you gotta do is: 1-don't ask about him 2-don't always look at him 3-don't always look FOR him … 4-always laugh about anything he says! 5-if he wants to kiss you you say to him"sure,why not?"and don't EVER say"okay" these are the five things you should do!
My knee is swollen and bruised on the lower kneecap i fell rollerblading its been a week and its still swollen and bruised it hurts to extend it im 13 years old whats wrong?
It is going to take a few weeks for the swelling to go down. Go see a doctor to have an x-ray and a MRI done to make sure that you did not tear anything in your knee. I …also hurt my knee cap a month ago. I went to the doctor and he said it will take a few weeks for the swelling to go down. In two more weeks I have to go to physical therapy. Get well soon. Keep your leg on a pillow to rest it.
What is wrong if your boyfriend has little red spots on his tongue that don't hurt but doesn't know what they are?
It's probably from drinking alcohol. It's an irritation of the taste buds and will go away soon, very temporary and not contagious, and not an Sexually Transmitted Disease. -j…umpmanph It could be Syphilis. The first sign is a painless sore called a chancre. It starts off as a small red bump then opens into a sore. This is caused by a bacteria and can be treated with antibiotics. It is important that it get this checked because it can be passed to you. I'm not sure what that is. I have had red tiny red spots on my tongue as well. I usually get around 20 small red spots (sometimes slightly raised sometimes not). I've gotten them several times so I assume they're recurring. I haven't gotten tested yet but I'm going in on Thursday to find out. (12/7/05). I had the spots on my tongue and i was concerned so i asked my doctor. He said it was most likely due to drinking alcoholic beverages in my case. He said it could also be food allergy or caused by smoking. Good luck hope everything turns out okay for you.
Should you give an abusive boyfriend another chance if you still love him very much but do not want to get hurt again?
Take it from me and every other girl behind me who has been abuse. the guy that u are dating is a jack*** ounce he hits he will always hit you. In my case he got worse rapped …and beat me up while i was pregnant. and did much more. after i had her i felt the same way you are feeling and once again he rapped me. Talking to guys is not cheating, because i most definatly garantee that everytime u leav he's cheating(i mean sleeping this time). i have never felt so humiliated in my life. It also affected me religious wise. he was always trying to say just like you that i was cheating on him, and would hit me when the response was no along with a punch in the face. Because he felt so guilty about the way he treated me. that he wanted to turn some blame on me. he has cheated on me five times that he has told me about(and probably somemore). Now my kid is involved because everyday im always thinking that he will come nd take her from me and do the things that he did to me to her. I don't even trust guys anymore. although tis situation is servere ive dealt with so much verbal abuse from guys. I refuse to trust and i have every reason backing me up. All guys are jacka**'s don't trust them and especially dun sleep with them until they marry you. Once a guy can marry you then it's a swarn agreement to be with you. Sleeping with a man releases a special hormon that permantly atracts the female to the male,it is also the same hormon that is released while breast feeding(it's wat bonds mother and child). These guys who want have a girlfriend will never be the real deal. Never pursue him to marriage, he is the one who is supposed to do it. And who knows he might a history of doing this to other females like mine did. Having a boyfriend is not a promise it's jus a way for a guy to manipulate a girl into sleeping with him.
cook him some ancry as food. then tell him how sorry you are. nd even if it was him that was mostly wrong just pretend it was your fault. and try to stay calm and dont be a ma…ggot. remember somthing must hav made himad so try and get him to tell you wat ya hav done wrong.
You told your friends secret to people and it was that she loved another boy but she has already got a boyfriend and their going to tell him and she will never be friends with you again what should yo?
Unfortunately she trusted you and you breeched that trust which is going to turn her life upside down. All you can do is apologize but chances are she will not be your friend …as well as others will now not trust you either. You are going to have to accept the consequences you caused for yourself and learn from this behaviour. That was a wrong move. When your friends tells you something you keep that secret like it was your own. Just apologize and she might not want talk to you but that was your own fault and you need to be more careful! How would you like it if your friends told all of your secrets? You wouldn't like it. Who did you tell, if you told everyone, then you are very disloyal. If you told a small bunch of other friends who told everyone else, then the friends are disloyal. well....u told a really bad secret and that wasnt a good idea. i would say sorry and if she doesnt wanna be ur friend anymore u have to respect that. would u like it if somone told ur secrets to the world? i know i wouldn't like that. so u should think before u do ur actions. if you really did that, you deserve to be hated. but if she really means a lot to you than you embarass yourself even worse. say that you love that boy instead. she'll understand and will eventually forgive you. but if not, know that you totally had it coming.
If anyone threatens to hurt themself, you need to call 911 and have a professional deal with them. You and I are not trained to deal with people in emotional crisis, and… ignoring the problem or trying to calm the person down yourself is more likely to end up with them hurting themselves anyway.
Well, The jerk in me says to wear low cut shirts and shorts, But the real me says, Try and do things that you think will get his attention. You don't have to be a wh.ore to ge…t his attention, but if that is what it comes down to, then he probably isn't the right guy for you. hope this helps. :)