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I am not making excuses for him, but he probably got more angry when you showed him because he was embarrassed and suprised at himself. BUT...it was not OK for him to leave bruises or "manhandle" you just because he was angry. You need to try to talk to him about it. If he gets angry again, you will probably have to leave. Tell him you are not trying to make him angry or upset, but you just want to show him how hard he grabbed you, so he won't do it again because you know he wouldn't want to do that to you. If he gets angry or violent, you'll have to leave him to stop it from happening to you again. He may need to go into counseling if it is a regular thing. If it is, you will need some counseling with him and separate. It's better for the relationship that way. Answer Physical abuse (battering) is wrong. Threatening another with physical abuse is wrong. He probably regarded your words as indirect criticism. Abusers hate criticism and react to it - try to drown it - with additional abuse.
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Should you dump your boyfriend if he told you that you would be in a 'world of hurt' if he caught you cheating and he is also very verbally abusive?
Answer . My husband always used to tell me that when we were dating. He would always tell me, but I didn't leave him just for that, because I loved him and knew that I woul…d never have to worry about him doing anything like that to me and I would never cheat on him. But if you plan to cheat on him, then you are probably messing with the wrong guy. But if you don't love him then you don't really have to stay with him. But what do you mean he is verbally abusive?. Dump him . His verbal abuse is sufficient reason to leave him and an ominous sign. That coupled with his thinly veiled threat of violence should you cheat on him is particularly disturbing. What if you don't cheat but he thinks you have? What if a harmless flirtation is overblown by him into something it's not? You need to extricate yourself from your relationship with him, but you must be careful. I would be willing to bet that your rejecting him will not sit well with him.. If it's just word, fight fire with fire. I know it might be a little childish but if he can say all those things he should be able to take some too. If it goes farther than just words defiantly get rid of the guy, and if you don't love the guy then there's no really a loss.
What would you do if your boyfriend broke up with you and told you he got what he wanted and then said he was just mad and he didn't mean it and says he wants to be together again?
Answer It sounds like he was mad, hurt at you and lashed out not meaning the cruel thing he said. I say mean things when I am mad, things I dont mean. It …sounds like he does care for you. Something just upset him, made him mad, maybe hurt him, and he was trying to hurt you. Ask him why he said what he said, and tell him it hurt you. Tell him in the future when you fight to say things that are truthful and dont say things just to hurt you. Use reasoning because next time he might not be given the chance to apologize. Work it out if you truly want him back, if not tell him goodbye.
Will you hear from your narcissistic boyfriend again if while on holiday you got drunk and told him a few home truths and he broke up with you?
Answer . \nYou need to ask yourself why you would even entertain the idea of wanting to hear from your narcissistic boyfriend. Even though drunk you still told him the tr…uth so now it's over and move on!
If anyone threatens to hurt themself, you need to call 911 and have a professional deal with them. You and I are not trained to deal with people in emotional crisis, and… ignoring the problem or trying to calm the person down yourself is more likely to end up with them hurting themselves anyway.
If a boyfriend is angry it is best not to start yelling and screaming but to speak softly or to give them space if they ask for it. If the person has done something wrong …they may want to explain why they did what they did or apologize.
Well, The jerk in me says to wear low cut shirts and shorts, But the real me says, Try and do things that you think will get his attention. You don't have to be a wh.ore to ge…t his attention, but if that is what it comes down to, then he probably isn't the right guy for you. hope this helps. :)
When a boyfriend threatens hell kick you out during an argument and is always accusing of being a cheater and sometimes is aggressive relationship seems hopeless What is the solution?
Kick him to the curb
What if your boyfriend said he was going to come get you and he didn't you was mad so you told him you was going out that night then he got mad which one was in the wrong?
To be honest both where very immature. The girl just wanted to wind him up, and the boy shouldn't have broke a commitment. Well that is my opinion.
Your boyfriend says you do not pay enough attention to him when you are around other people This is not intentional but he is very hurt by it What can you do since he is upset at you?
In a case like this, you have to compromise with the boyfriend. Apologize and let him know you really mean it. Tell him it wasn't intentional. If the boyfriend is stubborn abo…ut it, give him some space but let him go in a nice way. Something like "Baby I'm sorry i didn't realize i wasn't paying attention to you. I didn't mean to upset you." If the boyfriend is stubborn, say something like this, "Okay baby I'll let you go. I don't want this to turn into some big fight. I hate our fights. I really am sorry though. Mkay, ill talk to you in a few to see how you're feelin."
Your boyfriend found out you were rifling through his emails and texts and got angry saying he was very private you then apologized saying you would never do it again is that enough?
HOLD UP How long have you guys been dating? Your his girl-friend, in my eyes that gives you a right to snoop a little if you feel the need. To me, it sounds like he…s hiding something. Being "very private" is a crappy excuse..what does he need to be that private about? If my boyfriend did that to me I would call him sneaky and want to call everything off. (..and I'v been with him for three years.)
If you and your boyfriend got into an argument and your friend told him to talk it out with you but instead he went and told everyone he dumped you what should you do?
Talk to him about it. He is probably very angry, and needs some time to let it go. Sort out your problem by talking Otherwise, he might not actually care enough to stay in the… relationship; this is something you do need to discuss with him. Ask him to sit down and listen for five minutes while you tell him how you feel; don't be accusatory, just explain what you think and ask him to do the same. Don't do something silly like trying to get a vengeance - that will make it worse if you try to get back together.
Maybe learn some grammar? (NEXT ENTRY) And it also means he's trying to dump you without saying "Listen B**ch, your boring to I'm gonna start hittin ya sister."
Because the curse mark was going out of control, and because he cared about her as a teammate/friend/whatever.
Try explaining WHAT HURTS first, then I can help you :)
when a guy knows your mad he will try and do anything to win you back.. i mean literally so ignore him for awhile and just be like you know what im done i dont care bout this …argument and jus be like that for awhile he will come around and feel bad i do it all the time...well i hope it works for you
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You tried to make ameds with a girl a hurt by taking her out of a day and ask for a second chance as boyfriend but she got very angry and said she wanted nothing to do with you will she get her karma?
Karma isn't exclusive to and group of people. It's ubiquitous so it'll definitely hit her. But my guess is that her reaction is your karma hitting you for messing up in the fi…rst place. Basically man, it just proves she never loved you in the first place if she wouldn't give you a second chance. You deserve someone that loves you regardless.