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It is usually related to control and insecurity.

AnswerSome - not all - abusers are also stalkers. AnswerIt's about control and all I have to say about these abusive men is there are no better than the lowly pimps on the bad side of town!

Abusive men need someone they can control and mistreat. They know they would get their face punched in if they tried it with someone their own size, so they pick on women.

These abusers are actually punishing themselves. Sounds odd I know, but when they hurt you, they know they aren't much of a man. They have such anger in them that they prey on the weakest such as women and children and are too spineless to pick on another man.

If you manage to leave, keep going, and head straight to the "Abused Women's Center" where they will protect you. Don't bother with the police as there is little the laws of your country will do to protect you. You will be well protected at an "Abused Women's Center" and they will help you relocate.

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