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Breaking up with anyone, whether it be a boyfriend or a husband of 25 years, is indeed a loss, and normal trauma dealing with such is likely to occur. However, if you feel sad or even remorseful for leaving someone in such poor psycological condition, then you are probably a "nice" person, and have your own [desirable] behavioral patterns of normally wanting to help, see the good, etc... This is perhaps even why your N chose you to draw narcissistic supply from in the first place! Your empathy for a character such as the narcissist are natural, as you want to nuture and love a bird with a broken wing. However, your efforts will be futile, and this is a good time to excersize your grace and elegance and just leave your compassion behind you.
AnswerSo.. here�s my guess. 1. Even if you didn�t get love � you were giving it�. Loads of it.. so there�s a way that the time you spent with your N was sort of� well .. it vaguely reminds you of love. 2. After all that time with that person making you feel like crap�like they were the best thing that ever happened to you.. like you would be nothing without them.. you probably internalized a lot of that. 3. When that true face comes out to play.. it�s ground shifting.. makes you question who you were (and who you were with) all that time. 4. And also... they are really terrifying! Some of that's just (very apprpriate) fear. I just made that break (after so many times of feeling bad and not). There is good news over here.. it is very liberating! AnswerI left my N. and I felt so guilty for months. I felt like I was deserting him even though he "needed" me. He was such a miserable and depressed person and I knew that if I let, his life would be 10x worse. I struggled with feeling that way for awhile..then I realized, he wanted me to be MISERABLE so he could be LESS MISERABLE (cuz he has been miserable 24/7 since the day i met him 10 years ago - he's just good at hiding it). It was either die so he could live or the other way around.
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Why do you feel bad about having it?
Having what? Please re-write the question.
What do you do if hit on your ex and you feel really bad because you have a different girlfriend that you REALLY like?
grow a brain and choose one, you greedy narcissist
If you get pregnant by a married man do you feel bad?
I would feel bad to have sex with him at first... its having no repsect for his wife
I left him during sex how does that make him feel?
If you left him during sex I am sure that makes him feel pretty bad.
How would you feel about having Odysseus as your leader?
bad and scared
Should a girl feel bad about not having a bra?
Absoulutly not.
Difference in immature and narcissism?
The biggest difference between a narcissist and someone who's simply selfish and immature is a feeling of empathy and remorse. Pointing out to someone who's just immature that they're being selfish often causes them to feel bad about hurting others, while narcissists don't get that same reaction, and if they do feel bad, they feel bad that their actions have reflected negatively on their image.
Are narcissists afraid of being rejected when phoning an ex-girlfriend?
Yes. Any narcissist is afraid of having their ego bruised. If it isn't bad enough having an ex-girlfriend, being rejected again would hurt quite badly.
What do you do when your having a bad day?
go in my room and listen to whatever music makes me feel better.
What is the meaning of idiomatic expression of bad taste in the mouth?
Think of having a bad taste in your mouth. The image is of something that is unpleasant. Something that "leaves a bad taste" would be something that makes you feel bad even after it is over. You hear this said often of someone doing something that goes against their conscience. "It left a bad taste in my mouth when I told that lie."
Will a narcissist that hasn't changed in 10 years since the day you met him all of a sudden change for another woman?
No a narcissist will always be a narcissist. Don't get involved, you are free now. Be thankful you have escaped the worse time in your life and can move on. the narcissist wil try to make it look and sound like he is so much better to her, because that will further his need to make you feel like you don't matter, if you did, you would have treated you well, too. in reality, he is treating her just as bad as he did you, and probably rubs you in her face, too!
Can you drink alcohol after having IV injections?
yes, it wouldn't be to bad but it might feel a little different
