Why wont my husband speak to me about the problems in our marriage?

Answer 1

He might feel that he can not talk to you. Have considered brining in a impartial party (ie counseling) You need to try to open the lines of communication in your relationship. If your husband is not talking to you, who is he talking to? Ask yourself that question. If you could come up with an answer compare yourself to the people that your husband are talking to. See if there are similarities that your husband can relate to and differences that may compell your husband to talk to others. Maybe your husband is not talking to anyone which means that he has alot of pinned up emotions about the relatonship, in that case I suggest tha you guys enter some couples counseling.

Answer 2

Try writing something sweet on a small piece of paper, and give it to him.

At least he will read it.

Work out what you are going to write, don't ask him why he is not talking to you, I'm sure you know why.

Write what you like about him, and how you miss him not talking to you.

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Answer 3

Your husbands refusal to talk to you about your marital problems IS one of those problems. You cannot solve a problem until it has been identified and both parties agree that it exists and agree to work on it together. Men have more difficulty analyzing relationships, discussing their feelings and are less willing to change their behavior in many cases. If your husband will not talk to you about your concerns but will talk to others about your marriage then that is another problem that needs to be addressed. Spouses owe each other loyalty, respect and privacy. All are breached if your husband is discussing your private life with others. If he is doing that then he needs to do some soul-searching, not you.

You should consider making an appointment with a marriage counselor. If your husband wont go them go yourself and see if you can gain any helpful information about how to proceed. If he continues to refuse to acknowledge and address your concerns then it is time to ask yourself the big question: Am I better off with or without him?