Why would a 35-year-old woman be attracted to a 15-year-old boy?

Answer 1

== == * It seems there is a lot of that going on these days, and all I can think of is the woman is immature and needs to be in control. It's easy to control a 15 year old. No matter what her excuse it's wrong and it's against the law! At 15 there is no such thing a pure maturity at this age, so she can't use that as an excuse. * IM THE 35 YR OLD WOMAN AND I SAY, IMMATURE , POSSIBLY ILLIGAL ,, DEFINETELY BUT I GUESS WHAT I REALLY WANT TO DISCUSS AND INQUIRE ABOUT IS THE EMOTIONAL ASSPECT OF THIS AT 15 IS THE BOY REALLY INCAPABLE OF HANDELING THIS WHAT R HIS CAPACITIES TO FULLY AND CLEARLY UNDERSTAND AND CONTRIBUTE TO SOMEHTING LIKE THIS AND ASIDE FROM THIS ODD ATTRACTION DOES THIS MEAN THAT AN OTHERWISE NORMAL FEMALE HAS PROBLEMS THAT SHE IS NOT AWARE OF THAT CAUSES HER TO HAVE THESE FEELINGS. IM REALLY LOOKING FOR SOME INPUT FROM ANYONE BUT PLEASE PUT YOURSELF IN MY SHOES BEFORE U ANSWER THE OBVIOUS AND EASY ANSWER IS ONE OF JUDGMENT AND UNFAMILARALITY BUT I NEED SOME UNDERSTANDING AND COMPASIONATE ADVICE HERE THANX == == * As an adult I have to sway on the 15 year old boys side because adults are suppose to protect children and no matter how you slice it or dice it, it's not right. I do give you credit for your honesty on this board. I can't put myself in your shoes when most of older women wouldn't find a 15 year old boy attractive to the point of a relationship? As far as the emotional outcome for the 15 year old boy, you already know the answer to that one as you sound like a highly intelligent woman. You asked some fair questions and I'm not a professional and this is only my opinion. I must admit these days a 15 year old can physically look like a 20 year old at times, but emotionally they can't deal with it. They are still babes in the woods and even though some kids have had sexual experiences as early as 10 years of age, it doesn't make them emotionally capable of handling situations such as a young girl getting pregnant at that age. It's a baby having a baby. Say you had a relationship with this young man and you got pregnant. He is not emotionally equipped to deal with being a father. Perhaps a woman that is attracted to a young person has had it with adult men and been hurt by them, or she is a person of control. Some professionals feel they have all the answers to everything and therefore they feel they can handle any situation that arises. The woman may be able to handle it, but the boy can't. Your actions can only lead to trouble and possibly prison time for you, not to mention embarrassing your family, your good name and possibly losing your job. Also consider how this boy's parents would feel. Is it worth it? What actions you take with this 15 year old can make or break this child emotionally. Are you prepared for this? It's a heavy load to carry on your shoulders. The rest of this answer has been moved to the discussion page