Why would your boyfriend cheat on you when you do everything for him?

Answer 1

• He is immature and trying to prove his manhood. Most cheaters are insecure about the size of their penis and need women to lie (as all women will lie about the mans penis being perfect size to him. He will realize what he had with you one day, but you take your kind heart and save it for a real man. There are so many men out there, good men who don't doubt their ability to satisfy a woman and you need to find him!

• He has no love and respect for you and has taken complete advantage of your love and kindness. He is still a child and needs to grow up. Many men out there will love you for doing even less for them than you are doing. Get rid of him, otherwise you will become even more upset and depressed and your life will be ruined. He may even hit you and put you down mentally so get out now while you can.

• You should ask yourself these questions: Why are you with him? Why do you care? Don't ever waste your time caring about something or someone who isn't taking the time to worry about you.

• It's not about you it's all about him. You can give him the moon and he will never be satisfied. Cheating is like a drug; it gives them this Euphoric rush that he is doing something secret behind your back. Men are weak...someone strokes their ego and they fall "victim" to the prey.

• Did you read the question you typed? Helping to answer "Why would your boyfriend cheat on you when you do everything for him?" You do it all for him. Let him do for himself. I'm not saying that's the total reason he cheated, but being co- dependent it's is not good for you.

• He may be the type of cheater who prefers the hunt of a hard to get prey. He is useless for a relationship. Don`t do anything for him and look somewhere else.

• Sometimes, in relationships its hard to express what you really want from the other person, so you look elsewhere and when you find that person you try to mold them to have the same qualities as the woman you cheated on. If it is a sex thing it can be fixed. That does not excuse it or make it right.

• Some cheat for sex 99% of the time, it's up to the woman to also play her role and satisfy the man. I was in a situation where I tried to enhance the sexual relationship but if there is cooperation from the two, the man is forced to look for elsewhere.

• Because some men love to chase, it's their nature. Plus They only want what they can't have! So it doesn't matter how devoted you are, they will never be satisfied. If you have already done your best in this relationship, then tell yourself it's OK to leave. Chances are he will regret it someday after you left him.

• Because he's having fun and not ready to settle down. It would wise for you to dump him and don't look back. Either that or persevere with him if you think you can tame a wild man, but be ready for it to happen again.

• The magic words you just said "You do everything for him!" A couple should be kind to each other and share, but when it's one partner doing all the giving and the other one taking advantage of this (it often happens) then it's time to move on. Talking to these people who are "takers" isn't worth the energy because they will continue on the way they are. You can do better!

• Some men cheat for many reasons. Some cheat for the pleasure and excitement of the act. Some cheat because of encouragement from others. Some cheat because of unfulfilled sexual desires. Some cheat because of unhappy relationships. Some cheat to compensate for personal (emotional) weakness. Sex has a lot to do with excitement. It is all in the way some people perceive things. It is all about those things that excite the person. Some people become erotic with scents, same sex, places etc. So sex is all about what makes people erotic. Some people react with myopic emotional prejudice without taking all the relevant information into consideration. Before following someones advise you must consider all that you have to gain or lose. Have you done anything to create the present situation? You need to determine for yourself, if you have any of the following problems. Is your Boyfriend abusive and uncaring? Is there is a lack of passion/excitement in your relationship? What are the things about you that he loves? What are the things about him that you love? Are you making the effort to satisfy his sexual needs? Is he a good and loving person? Do you all have a good level of communication? How does he demonstrate to you that he cares for you? After you answer these questions honestly, consider what your relationship is worth to you and make a rational decision!
  

• You have already gotten hurt so ask your self this: Do you want to get hurt again?

i would just call him off and tell him its over i have nothing to do with us