I feel I have to elaborate, and this was the only way to do so. We were together a year, and never had any fidelity problems, but as soon as we became 'long distance' we had discussions of breaking up or staying together. We decided to stay together, but one week later, she got drunk at a party and made out with a random guy. I talked to her a couple times during the night too, but it must have happened in between. She says she just got caught up in the moment and not knowing when she would see me again. She told me the very next day, and has cried and apologized repeatedly. She is not in contact with the guy. She says it was a big wake up call that she doesn't want to ever lose me, and is determined to get back together with me.
We are talking every day and trying to move on, but it is really hard to get the image of it out of my head. I keep picturing her doing it. I keep thinking of her telling me she would never cheat on me, and what I would have done in that situation. I never would have let it happen in a million years, so it is really hard to forgive, but I love her and she has been so good to me prior to this. What are your thoughts on this situation?
forever
If she cheated once, she will cheat again. Find someone new closer to your home.
Yes. Long distance relationship with a girl from Inglewood.
Long distance relationship or not. It's still a relationship. Respect that fact. If you care for this guy, you'll be his friend and leave it alone or support it.
wouldn't that be up to you?
Don't go back to your ex. She is your EX for a reason, & hello, she cheated. Don't hurt someone else because you want to be reckless. If you have feelings for both women, just break up with your long distance girlfriend, but don't get with your ex. It's not fair to string your current girlfriend along or lead her on because you don't know what to do with your life.
she had already cheated by sleeping with my best friend and still she is black mailing me with the support of some powerful rich woman's.
Thats impossible
tell him how you feel. Let him know you have a crush on him and that you think that because he has a long distance relationship he isn't getting the attention he needs or deserves. End by telling you can do it better then her anyways!
I've had experience, but long distance relationship seriously doesn't go for long. one of them usually gets bored and cheats on the other.
It is quite possible. Alcohol has a direct relationship to the concept of cheating.
Show her, Tell her, Ur plans for both of u. prove it. its not that hard. be real, no secrets.