"In love" is such an subjective abstract concept, who is to say that my interpretation of the phrase and yours are the same as each other or anyone else's? One could say that, truly, if you think you are "in love," then you are.
They love the concept that they have a girlfriend/spouse etc. They love love. They do not love the person. They love the ideation/prestige/ of being in love only. It's noticable when they speak in 3rd person ie "my girlfriend and I did....", NOT "Susan and I did...." Their love is conceptual.
My N swore I was the love of his life. When I said I loved him too, he would dimiss it by saying, "You're just infatuated with me." It was crazy-making. We couldn't just be two people in love. He had to be "The Lover."Being self-absored, unempathetic , Narcissists are notorious for lacking the capacity to emotionally bond with others which render them of course uncapable of real love.
I think they r capable to a point of caring what happens to you like physical harm. But only if you don't produce any serious N injury to them. If that happens look out. Because they r unforgiving and they come first. I think this may be because they can only care to a point when they reach that point they pull away. Usually when two non NS love each other we tend to feel more for them than ourselves if they r deserving. Ns could never do this ever. If you unmask them ur injury them emotionally they could care less about you because they come first and foremost. Like a spoiled child. I like u as long as......?, I'll be ur friend as long as,....? otherwise I'll take my toys and go play with the kid down the street. This is the message I got from my ex.
No. They have zero concept of what it means to love another human being.
Maybe, if he ever finds love
Try counseling.
Because we are men we (sometimes) want what we cant have. It's just like on TV shows where you see the Narcissistic female cheerleader have all the boys drool over her. The boys are drawn 1: By her beuty 2: Her Confidence 3: and we know she's out of our league. The reason we don't leave a narcissist is because we know that we have feeling for her, but she's just living in the moment. Narcissist have no commintment and feed off of other peoples love for them.
love always never hate
yes
They will start to degrade and abuse you worse than ever. Get away!
narcissist.
A Masochist is someone that loves pain, in short, and very generalized. Loving a narcissist is about pain, therefore only a masochist could love a narcissist. Having said that, I think someone was being very sarcastic when writing it as anyone can fall in love with a narcissist, they are very charming and morph themselves to you, for awhile. I think they were trying to make the point that only a masochist could enjoying loving a narcissist, due to the pain part. On that I concur.
Narcissists love only themselves.
There is no evidence that he is a narcissist.
A malignant narcissist cannot magically shed his damaging patterns of behavior to bestow unconditional love upon his child. A good parent is one who places his child's needs above his own. A narcissist always places their needs first.
try not to change him learn to love the way that he is
Well of course. That's a how a narcissist valids himself.
Eventually because they are in love with themselves.
It's certainly possible. A narcissist may date another narcissist that is more selfish than they are to feel better about themselves. In turn say "i'm not as selfish as he/she is so that makes me above him/her). It's incredible and shocking the way people with this disorder think. It takes a lot of research to understand a narcissist.
The only "love" a narcissist knows is self-love. Their inability to empathize with anyone else means they are unlikely to know what love is. A narcissist will say anything to maintain their narcissistic supply. If you are the source of this supply, and they realised that if they said they don't know what love is will get you to increase that supply, then they will say it. Please be careful. Look after yourself.
narcissist person is a our self-love. he/she always show our personality,our beauty.