It has happened many times before and will probably happen many more times: a person abuses his/her partner then turns around and apologizes, asking to be taken back, promising to be a changed person. In general DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK. This is a classic psychological pattern of behavior and unless the person has received professional help, chances are (s)he has not changed. God bless. Most abusers are serial abusers - they repeat the same behavior patterns in all their intimate relationships.
Abuse stems from the abuser, not from the relationship - so a change of partner won't in itself change much (or anything). An abuser needs appropriate counselling or therapy to deal with the problem. The first step of course is for him or her to acknowledge that there is a problem and that needs attending to. I hope this is some help. All the best - Joncey
I think the key word here is ABUSER. He is doing it to draw you back in, hurt you, throw you into confusion and to keep abusing you, which it seems is working. Do not let him back in.
It exist because the person being hurt stays in the relationship thinking the abuser will stop. Face reality this person has issues and they will not just up and change. I would advise anyone who is in an abusive relationship whether physical,emotional or verbal get out while you still can, because the abuser is not going to change magically.
Get into batterer counseling (even if its verbal/ emotional abuse) ASAP (NO Anger Management - that does NOTHING for abusers)
Yes, that's a reasonable speculation.
No I dont think so, but if he verbally abuses you then maybe its time fo you to get out of the relationship.
Yes, verbally abusing children (and adults, incidentally) can result in emotional and behavioral problems.
If someone is abusing you over the phone then the first thing you can do is ask them to stop the abuse. If they will not stop the abuse then you can warn them you will stop the call. If that will stop the abuse then disconnect the abuser and tell your supervisor who was the person who was abusing you. In responsible companies some supervisors will ring the abuser to find out why they were abusing you and what will be done to those people if the abuse happens again
Every individual can lose their temper every so often and say something they may regret, but a verbal abuser is someone who constantly verbally abusing their partner with such things as 'you are good for nothing'; 'who would ever want you' and there are mainly other insults to the victim of verbal abuse.
sometimes a verbal abuser can be consider a sociopath they get involve and like the dirty talk and begin to make them feel and enjoy group talk that is abusive.
Get rid of them and get counseling.
Verbal abuse is the use of negative words against a person. This can take the form of shouting, name calling, use of disrespect words, blaming and accusing. You can try to handle verbal abuse by dialogue.
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