Will your narcissist ever truly love you the way you love him?

Answer 1

DEFINITION OF NARCISSIST PRECLUDES NORMAIf it suits his purposes for "narcissistic supply" he could put in an academy award performance that he does for a burst. Well he hooked you with it before. Then as soon as you think he has got there (you know why it should be feasible him loving you back re what you offer and shared when he acted loving)he'll soon unfailingly recoil and find ways of shattering this notion and you with it, again.If he fits the criteria of a clinical narcissist, or has so many ongoing features of behaviours of a narcissist, the label makes it clear there is no capacity for such a person to reciprocate in a two way enduring love/constructive relationship.I hope no one calls some one a narcissist unless the person shows over time sufficient traits that the label is virtually unavoidable. Look up personality disorders and face the awful fact that these people do not change or very little. While there are other types of disorders they actually all share the "narcissitic trait" of no capacity to properly empathise -ever-, totally in chaos meeting their own needs, dealing with their fears and nothing can penetrate. They can act short term to get what they want at the time at best, but sustain nothing positive.So don't worry if your calling some one a narcissist is very close to some other condition if they realy fit virtually all of the criteria (leave that to clinicians)your common sense and experiences will tell you it fits.The fit comes with greater sorrow as there is no hope of a reasonable relationship than the relief of understanding the situation at first.There may be a few exceptional people who can make the choice to remain with such a personality disorder and enjoy what's possible from the limited parameters and function. Most of us try that to our ongoing detriment as it's so hard to let go of some one we fell in love with too much even as we try to let go.The only time it's excusable to refer to some one as a "narcissist" is in an early stage of a relationship that the potential warning signs of of a new partner show potential Narcissism and definite danger to motivate one to run away fast despite the charm. While the person may be a no go zone be cautious in where you share the label, best kept he seems like he could be a...