Set boundaries on the things you control, and don't try to control the things you can't. None of us can make someone do something if they really don't want to do it. If you and your partner share a lease/mortgage, then you can't make them leave. You will probably have to leave yourself. But, if you control the living arrangements, you can take concrete steps to evict them (bear in mind that even if someone just lives with you, and pays no rent, some states still consider this a tenant situation and you must follow eviction steps). One can also move their belongings to a neutral location, change the locks, etc. If he or she won't leave, or threatens you, after you have taken preliminary steps, call the police. He or she is either trespassing or (in the case of threatening) committing a crime. The important thing to remember when dealing with a narcissistic person is that they don't have to agree with or like your choices, but you have the right to set boundaries. Be prepared for them to be upset, but don't let that prevent you from making healthy choices.
Who was awarded the home?
If this person is in your house, you should tell him to leave. If he refuses, you can contact the police. However, if he is in her home, there is nothing you can do about it.
No contact.change your phone, your emails, block & delete herand do not allow her in your home anymore.
say "I know you love them but they are not healthy for me to be around so please understand this when I won't go to their home."
You will have to let a court decide. You need to consult an attorney who specializes in real estate litigation who can review your situation and determine what your options are.
I think you meant how you can get away with it. well, either do it while he is at work, or go to a lawyers office and ask without his consent.
Have your boyfriend invite her to dinner so they can "talk", when she shows up, let immigration take her "home". The officers can get her to sign the papers before they leave. Problem solved.
You could kick him out on the street
The age of consent in NC is 16, and you have to be no more than four years younger or older than your partner when dating or having sex. You have to be 18 to leave home with out parental consent, unless you get emancipated.
you can be 16 to leave home
It is highly unlikely that man who does not have an abusive personality will become an abuser if their partner grew up in an abusive home and refuses help. Good men know they should never hit a woman which in some cases can lead to male abuse by a woman. The stress of being around an abusive person be it verbally or physical abuse is bound to have effects on the non abusive partner, but most men will only take so much and have the opportunity of leaving the relationship.
Yes you can but you need to be polite when you ask your parents but let them meet your partner so they know what he is like and the way he treats you. Assuming that you live in the U.S.--No. A 16-year-old is a minor, therefore Mom and Dad get to decide where you live. If you leave home without their consent, they can --and likely will--report you as runaway. You will be picked up by the authorities and brought back home. In addition, your partner could be facing charges for taking you in.