I am sorry to say that it sounds like your relationship was already in trouble before the family reunion. Most guys worth their salt would never have done what your boyfriend did to you. If he thought highly of you and wasn't so self centered he should have told you he wanted to breakup with you and wanted to see this other girl. This shows his moral standards and poor character so consider yourself lucky you found out now. Although your heart is breaking and nothing makes sense to you right now you will see that all of us have different painful paths to go down in order to meet that special guy you really should be with and one that will love and treat you the way you should be. When you are over the grief (and it is a grieving process) pick yourself up, dust yourself off and start going out with friends and getting back into the dating game. Never let any guy control your life after he has disrespected you in the manner your boyfriend has.
Probably at least 3 to 4 days after the relationship started
I Wentt Through The Same Phase. I Told Him 'I Feel Like Our Relationship Has Went Downhill Since We Started Datingg. I Liked It Better When We First Started To Date'
you're getting boring or he sees another girl also he might think your cheating because a rumor started
* You don't. He is your ex for a reason. If he has started a new relationship that's none of your business. You lost that right when you broke up. Even if you have been together a long time he obviously wants to move on. * Leave him to it and just get on with your own life.
I have a best friend who moved in with her boyfriend about ten months after they started dating and they're getting married next year. If you and he are a strong couple, there's no way to go but up.
you ask her out
try to focus of the new guy and try to for get about the old guy if you can't then go back to the old guy
Especially younger people will have several boyfriends or if male, several girlfriends as that is part of growing up. When you steady date and have a boyfriend you should always be honest in the relationship. If you feel you like this new person then tell your boyfriend and break up. Your boyfriend may be hurt, but it is unfair to see another young man behind his back. Whenever in doubt ask yourself how you would feel if he did what you are doing!
Calm. There is no need to act while you have a boyfriend. You can always experiment with this new developement later if your relationship doesnt work out. If it becomes a problem you need to talk to your boyfriend about it. It is very important that you tell him or else he would get very upset if you dumped him for a girl.
It means he is losing the passion for you...the excitement that you had when you first started dating....it happens in EVERY relationship.
What I would do if I was in that situation is I would try to talk to her and try to solve a way to make your relationship stronger and if its affecting you to much then maybe you should end your relationship.
Please do not be worried. Your worries and insecurity with this will defo show in your relationship and he will notice a change, thus causing tension and mis-communication, try not to let this affect you in anyway, if you do fear a breakup, boohoo its his loss anyway. It could just be paranoia, so hold your head up, things might not be as amplified as you make it seem. Make sure you speak to your boyfriend about this.