How do you know if you are really falling for someone or if it's just a temporary crush especially if you just came out of a long-term relationship?
Answer . It's best to take it slow and easy. It could well be love, but after a bad relationship (especially a long term one) you need time to think about things, deal wit…h your anger, frustrations, hurt and yes, to grieve. It's not easy giving up on a relationship no matter how bad it was. \n. \nThis is probably love, but just take it slow and easy and don't rush into anything. Learn more about yourself, get out with girlfriends and have some fun. Go on a mini trip or if you can afford it travel for a month. Do things you never had the chance to do before. If the guy you are with loves you, this is a good test for him because if he cares about you he'll be there when you get back. Also, communication is the key, so let him in on the secret ... tell him you just got out of one bad relationship and you want to take it slow and easy. If he's a good guy he'll understand.\n. \nGood luck\nMarcy (MORE)