How do i become cool I'm just a nerd who wants to fit in dering life i want to be normal it's killing me being a geek i ask girls out and they're regekting me some Evan call the cops or make me leave?
Well! You have a small problem of personal insecurity and lack of self esteem. You aren't a geek or a nerd. Everybody learns the hard way, Even the girls. You are somebody and… may have good intentions and skills. Learning how to deal with women is a a no no course of no return. They don't know what they want either. Being cool is being calm, clean, and collected. You can't be pushey and brag about yourself. Change your approach to nice and sincere talk.. ----. Why would you want to?. Just because you're a geek doesn't mean you're anti-social. I dress normal, wear make-up, do my hair, hang out, go to parties... date, kiss, chat.... I like parties, clubs, raves... hanging out.... I have a lot of people that want to date me. I'm really popular and social.. I just enjoy playing video games and watching anime. I like going to conventions.. Big deal.. Just because I'm a geek doesn't mean I'm not cool. It's the same with you, sweetheart.. Don't give up yourself. . don't change yourself just because someone doesn't act the way they want you to. i am between the popular people and the NERDY people, but i am really shy!!lol :) i don't really care either. ( Full Answer )