When a couple has requested no wedding gifts I have been known to send them a card stating that in lieu of a gift I made a contribution to a charity on their behalf. Couples are usually very appreciative

My first inclination is to say "requested that" and "requested that the".

Phrases like "requested the" and (but only in certain circumstances) "requested of the" are generally clunky and inserting "that" after "requested" makes better sentences.

Examples for "requested that":

The professor requested that I meet with him tomorrow.

The man requested that his neighbor stop driving on the lawn.

I requested that the apartment manager meet me next Wednesday to discuss problems.

Examples for "requested that the":

The manager requested that the tennants put their garbage cans behind the building.

The manager requested that the supervisors wear suits for the meeting.

Examples for "requested the":

I requested the chicken with mashed potatoes and peas.

I requested the bills for the last six months.

Both "are" requested to attend the meeting.

Most Requested was created in 2000.

you are kindly requested to decide the matter?