Are any other guys sick of being rejected by girls when you are nice while the guys who are not nice are accepted?

first of all, Im not a guy-but heres a woman's perspective on this. We like a man to be nice, but not a mamma's boy. Im not accusing you, just know that we are sometimes overly critical in this area. Also, if a guy is stoic and nothing but nice, we'll get bored. A man has to be a LITTLE flirty, even just enough to know that she's attractive to you. we like a bit of a rebel sometimes, but don't be a punk- that's almost always an instant turnoff. hope this helped!