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Sweetie... dump him.. you dont need someone who treats you as SECOND CLASS..... if you really love him... give him an ultimatum... then you will either change him or loose him... at least you were in control about that...... good luck... also shoot him in the face with a shotgun. do it!!!!

If he says hes not ready for commitment he is using you until he can find someone else. He probably has a string of women lined up to use. Some will be gorgeous, ugly, young, old, you are not important to him and dont let him fool you into thinking you are. my N is a middle aged batchelor, he just cant leave his mother. i have helped him and supported him for 6 years, after years of trying to help him do something possitive, the min i get any result his mum talks to him the min ive gone and he has changed his mind. she should be encourageing him. i dont no enough about his mom to know if she is one too but if he s still with her at that age you wont win. you ll just make yourself ill trying, its really not worth it!

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Q: Are there good ways to tell if a middle-aged bachelor has problems because he is a narcissist or if he has problems because his mother was one?
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Will a narcissist return if you throw him out?

Only if there is something in it for them - because they are, after all, a narcissist!

Will a narcissist contact you after a break up?

Yes, sometimes a narcissist will contact their ex after a break up because the narcissist cannot imagine their ex with anyone else as the narcissist has a complex of being the greatest at everything including relationships and is ego maniacal.

Why can't a narcissist forgive?

Because they don't care about you

Can a narcissist recover?

From everything I've read on the subject, it is not likely. They have deep emotional problems that they are not able to confront and you have to recognize that you have a problem before you can begin to solve it. If you are a narcissist, and believe that you are, seek professional help and try to work on things. If you are involved with a narcissist, the most important thing you can do is make sure you are not victimized because that is what happens. Have enough respect for yourself and faith in who you are to get out of any situation that is not healthy for you. That one certainly is not.

How does a narcissist become a narcissist?

They are born that way. A narcissist is just a milder form of a psychopath, they can feel shame and guilt but that is all. You will know when you have been around a narcissist because you will feel used abused and robbed. Read all you can on this horrific disorder.

Why do women stay with their narcissist?

Because the women are also narcissists.

Why is narcissist happy to be seen with older bigger women?

Because older person will enhance narcissist's youth and bigger person will enhance nacssist's slimness.

Can a bachelor take his wife to the movies?

No, because by definition, a bachelor is a man who does not have a wife.

Are narcissists liars?

Typically yes. Trust me because I'm a narcissist.

Why does a narcissist lie?

Because of their disorder. They lie about everything. EVERYTHING. Run!

Do narcissist always ruin relationships?

Eventually because they are in love with themselves.

What will Narcissist boyfriend do if you cheat on him because of neglect?

leave and/or abuse you and blame you.

What tv show used the song on the wings of love?

The Bachelor did. The show was called, "The Bachelor-On the wings of love" because the bachelor was a pilot

How do you help a narcassist get help?

A narcissist would not want help because he or she would not think there was anything wrong. Therefore, you can't help a narcissist; even when a narcissist is court ordered into therapy, there is little a professional can do to help a person change this personality type.

Why would a narcissist always say how similar you and she are and how you guys are better than everyone else but then subtly insult you when you have something she wants?

because narcissist are jerks plain and simple.

Your narcissist always ignores you right after sex why does he do that?

Because he's a narcissist. It's what he does. Likes himself... Also, he may be a tad too busy imagining how great he looked when he orgasmed...

Is a narcissist capable of love?

A narcissist is not capable of love. The narcissist is a heartless, soulless individual. "Love" to the narcissist is the feeling of euphoria that he/she gets when a new narcissistic supply source has been found. Because they are extremely enamored, they project the feeling of being in madly in love with you, therefore fooling you into thinking it's genuine love. They actually might believe it themselves (kind of like pathological liars or people who pass lie detector tests) because they are mentally ill. Trying to ride out that relationship with the narcissist? Save yourself the pain and RUN!

Will he block you out of his narcissist life?

Mine did. I dumped him and he blocked me from everything because I was so angry and called him names and wouldn't get over my anger. He said I hurt him because I called him a "coward", "a narcissist", "a jerk", "stupid", etc. so he blocked me completely.

Can a narcissist handle rejection?

No because rejection means you know who and what they really are and know all their true self. They think they are god and that one cannot live without them. They believe that you are the one who needs them, when in reality it is the other way around. Once a narcissist always a narcissist. They cannot change

Why do narcissist men not show intimacy to there mate only with material things?

Because they are narcissistic.

Is the narcissist ever sorry?

In theory, it's possible for a narcissist to feel sorry. A diagnosis for NPD doesn't really require a lack of empathy and a god complex isn't even one of the criteria. Unfortunately, I've never seen any reports of a narcissist feeling genuine remorse. This could simply be because we don't think of anybody who can genuinely feel remorse as a potential narcissist.

Can you get a narcissist to come back?

YES , If you have been with a narcissist long enough, you will probably have broken up a dozen times. You will have to except the fact a narcissist left in the first place because, they have already replaced you. The only reason why the come back to you, is because you except them for what they are. They will never respect you, and will always cheat on you with the worst people. When you are broke, they will leave you for good. So don't even try to get them back

At about what age does one normally begin to stop showing signs of narcissism if they are not really a narcissist?

You are saying at what age do they stop showing signs of narcissism but they can't because you are saying they are not really a narcissist so how can they!

How was Mount Bachelor named?

Mount Bachelor was originally called Bachelor Butte because it sat apart from the Three Sisters volcanoes. It was renamed Mount Bachelor when it became a ski resort to making skiing there sound more enticing.

Why would a narcissist want only sex from you after a breakup?

Because he is not done using you yet. Testing you.

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