Are you gay if you are 13 and never had a girlfriend?

Answer


Just because you are 13 and never had a girlfriend does NOT mean you are gay.
If you would like to have a girlfriend becasue you like girls then you are definitely not gay.
If you don't want to have a girlfriend becasue you think you are still too young you are probably not gay.
Many young people don't have girlfriends (or boyfriends) until they are much older.
I have twins who are 17, the girl has had one boyfriend for a month or two about a year ago, the boy has never had a girlfriend, what they do have is boy and girl mates who they hang with and have fun. Maybe one of them will become more than a mate, but as long as they are happy who cares.
A gay person thinks of their own sex in a sexual manner, it is nothing to do with whether you have had a girlfriend.