Broke up with ex would not live together and gave you a ring but not an engagement ring atfer 4 years will he ever change his mind?

Answer 1

* Some men are just terrified of commitment regarding marriage. Good for you for not being pushed into living with your ex. If he loved you then he would respect you for this and get engaged. He probably gave you a 'Promise to get engaged ring' which use to be the rage in Canada. I never could figure that one out ... either you are engaged or you are not. The quickest way to cut to the chase for results as to whether he will ever marry you is to give back his ring and start going out with friends and get back into the dating circuit. If you are always around him and never ask for more than you are getting then give him something to think about; you just won't be there for him. Often this is enough of a shock for the boyfriend to make up their mind to get married (only take him back if he's willing to set a wedding date) or he will be long gone. This is a risk you are going to have to take, but you will come out the winner because you will have saved a lot of precious time in your life and free yourself up to meet the right man in your life.