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Yes a husband CAN love a mistress but he CAN'Ttruly love his wife as well. If he truly loved his wife then he wouldn't need to have a mistress on the side. True love isn't spread around (other than family and friends) but able to be given to one other person and ONLY one other person, otherwise it is just lust.
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∙ 16y agoIt is very rare that a husband leaves his wife for his mistress.
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Should you accept husband and mistress' child?
If your husband has broken off the affair with the mistress then your husband should do the right thing and pay child support, but that does not mean you have to accept the child into the family. If the mistress does not want the child then it is up to you whether you want to help to raise that child. If your husband is still seeing his mistress then pack his bags and kick him out and either file for a separation or divorce.
How does a wife feel if her husband use some of the things he did with his mistress in bed with you?
Firstly the wife knowing very well her husband has a mistress should not be having a sexual relationship with him and knowing full well he uses the same toys on the wife as the mistress is disrespectful and disgusting. The wife needs to get a spine and stand up to her husband and tell him he gives up the mistress and goes to marriage counseling or he packs his bags; gets out and the wife files for divorce. Considering what the husband is doing he isn't worth keeping anyway.
Why some husband get turned off when the wife gives blessing to go back to his mistress?
When a wife gives her husband her blessings so he can return to his mistress he is not expecting this and his wife is as much as saying 'I don't care.' Her husband is wary of her giving up so easily and most likely feels she is having an affair as well and oddly enough while the husband feels it is fine to have a mistress he does not like the idea of his wife having a lover. Therefore, this could be bad for the mistress because the husband is more likely to stay with his wife.
Can you feel like you are the mistress of your spouse while he was cheating on you?
Yes, the wife can feel like a mistress when her husband is having an affair because he may well either love his wife; love both women or, he wants to continue with a sexual relationship with his wife and the adventure of having a sexual relationship that is exciting with his mistress. A wife that puts up with her husband's cheating is an enabler and if she allows it to go on then she is not only stripping herself of her dignity and self worth, but she her husband will not respect her for putting up with it. 'You' are in control of this situation and sit down with your husband and tell him you are not putting up with his cheating and he either goes to marriage counseling with you; drops the mistress or you are divorcing him. This should get his attention!
Why does a wife dream of speaking with husbands girlfriend?
* If you husband does not have a girlfriend and you dream of speaking with your husband's girlfriend then it generally is the fact you are having marriage problems and fear that your some other woman will take your husband away. If your husband does have a girlfriend then you should not even have him living in your home and if he is seeing another woman and living with you then no wonder you are having dreams of speaking with your husband's girlfriend. She is the mistress and you don't have to say anything. It is your husband you should be speaking too and tell him to make up his mind if it's you or his mistress. The up side is that more often than not men who have a mistress on the side and when faced with an ultimatum by their wife will generally choose the wife, but if he should not then it's highly unlikely he will stay with his mistress long as he will want more freedom.
During the affair how can you tell if your husband wanted to be with his mistress instead of staying home with you?
If your husband wanted to be with his mistress instead of you he would either make excuses not to come home (working late; meeting a client, etc.) or, he'd make an excuse such as going out with his male friends so he can meet his mistress. Sometimes the mistress may phone to set up a time to meet him either on his cell or sometimes the home phone and if you pick up and no one is there you can bet it is her.
What recourse does a wife have when the husband has committed adultery in VA and the woman won't go away?
ANSWER:Tell him that he needs to talk to his ex mistress and tell her to stop, or else tell your husband that you will not put up with his ex mistress. Either he made her stop, or tell him that he needs to move out, period.
Can a mistress sue her boyfriend for not leaving his wife as promised?
No she can't. A mistress is a mistress: there for pretty much sex and nothing more. Marriage however is not only an intimate relationship but a legal contract between the husband and wife. The mistress is just a random third party. It would NEVER hold up in court because the mistress is helping the man cheat.
Who's problem is it to resolve if the other woman is still contacting the wife and the married man she had the affair with?
Your husband had a tongue in his head and he could have said 'no' to having an affair with the other woman or, he started the affair so it is up to the husband to resolve the problem with the mistress contacting the wife and himself. If the husband does not stop the ex mistress from phoning his wife and himself then the wife should at least apply for a separation because he may still be seeing the mistress.
What to do if your husband is still friends with his mistress brother?
If you have proof they have cheated then confront your husband (he is mainly to blame because he is an adult and knows better) and tell him that he and your sister in law have a week to tell her husband or you will and if he does not break up the relationship with her then you are filing for divorce. You husband and sister in law have created a situation that has hurt you, her husband, any children they may have, but also hurt the rest family as a whole and cause two brothers to end a possibly good relationship.
Can i predict what size feet my daughter will end up having?
not really, but u can guess by looking at ur feet and ur husband/wifes feet.
Should you leave your husband after he took his mistress on vacation?
The fact you knew he took his mistress on vacation means you are enabling his behavior of letting him have an affair in the first place. He should be taking you on a well deserved vacation and not his mistress. It's time you stood up for yourself and, if you have children it is well worth it to communicate how you feel to your husband and tell him the only way he can save the marriage is by going for marriage counseling. If he does not agree to do this and continues to see his mistress then you need to get your self respect back and start looking after any children you may have. If you don't have children then file for a divorce if your husband refuses to seek marriage counseling.
