I might add to the previous question that this man told me that he loves me about three months ago; what do I do? An affair is out and working with him is painful!
You can't trust your husband after that. If he did it once and fell in love with his mistress, he's capable of doing it again. Get a divorce and move on.
You can't..
Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
No woman would want to be compared to their spouse's affair partner. When a spouse does this they are getting even for having to stay with their spouse. It hurts and cuts deeply when the cheating spouse makes comments about how much better their affair partner was. Take control and let your spouse know immediately you are not going to put up with their childish behavior and if their affair partner is so great then tell him/her (no matter how hard it is for you) that you will file for divorce as you deserve better.ANSWER:It will be a pleasure to answer this question because it did happened to me personally. When I discovered my husband's affair, I had found out that his not only admired this woman but he fell in love with her. And that is why he compared me to his "friend" aka mistress. The day he compared me to her was the day that I know, no matter how much we wanted to rebuild the relationship it will not work with me anymore. I will not be the second choice after his affair..
I would just say maybe get a divorce and it might go through well or not? I will make it easy . Husband and wife are both use to go partner changing club. So to do sex with other are the normal walk of life. The both have no hesitation in partner changing and to discuss on the sex experiences with other. In such a atmosphere a woman do not mind to say openly to his husband that I fell in Love with some on. Husband will give congratulation to his wife instead of divorcing.
Your detail is not really complete, and it will be hard to help you. So I will do my best. If you are the wife and you have this problem your life will be a mess more than you know. Did your husband knows what going on behind his back, if he is the two of you are heading to a divorce court. But if your husband don't know and you fell in love with the man that you're having an affair it will not be fair to your husband. My question to you is, are you sure that you want the other man, or it's all about lust?..
The same reason she would believe anything he says: trust. if she doesn't trust him, then there is little point in continuing together; if she does, then she will believe him until there is certain evidence otherwise. ANSWER: Wives who's been hurt by affairs of their husband will have a hard time trusting again. When our trust is been betrayed, its only natural to have this problem. Your husband has a lot of things to prove to you that he needs you to believe in him again, but he can't rush you by forcing you to trust him again without consequence's. Loosing your trust, faith, and respect towards your husband is going to take you a while to have it back and believe me its normal. I was in your shoes before. Most husband who did have affairs will never tell us how they felt towards the other woman especially if he fell in love with her. It's not your lost but his. All you have to do is talk and ask him, and if he can't answer you, then you know what to do. Good luck!! Malia
To many americans, this is not normal. Everybody has different opinions, but this is a love triangle bound to become disconected in one way or another. Unless you and the others have the love, tolerance, and trust to be togather.
She did have an affair on her now ex-husband, Dean Sheremet and is currently married to the guy she had an affair with, Eddie Cibrian. Whether she is having an affair on Mr. Cibrian is currently unknown.
Because he fell in love with her, and she was meant to be beautiful.
There have been all sorts of unplanned consequences resulting from an affair, besides STIs and pregnancies. In some affairs, the other person becomes a stalker or blackmails the cheating spouse; the affair partner (other woman/other man) harasses and threatens the betrayed spouse, the betrayed spouse harasses the affair partner. Even worse, there have been murders and suicides as a result of an affair. There's no way to predict what person will be set off by the results of an affair. ANSWER: AS far as I know yes there are some mistress that do no stop harassing the wife. I'm not sure how dangerous a mistress are, but I will use my past experience. When I discovered my husbands love affair, it automatically changed their life together. She said I ruined her life with my husband, and some other stuff. To me it's my husbands fault why she become this way, even they met on a dating site, it was him who pursue her even if she was still married. And because he fell in love with her but unfortunately I discovered their affair, he stop seeing her. That woman still part of my life even I don't have a life with the man that I married. But this is what the mistress is been doing, to make my life with my children miserable.
It fell under the control of her husband.
ANSWER:Good question; but it will be a bit tricky. I never met married people who had an affair, stop the affair and go back to that person for another affair. The only married man or woman that go back to the first affair he or she had are the one that fell in love to that person. And I think that is the reality that most cheater face.