No, people do not give money to the family of the deceased at wakes in Ireland.
Wake them up and ask them!
We attended the wake for the deceased last Monday evening.
After a funeral there will normally be a gathering of people known to the deceased. This is normally sponsored by the immediate family. People recall nice/funny/fond moments from the deceased's life. This is normally accompanied by quantities of alcohol. The 'wake' is so-called because many coffins were dug up in medieval England and were found to have scratches on the inside of the lids. The wake meant people stayed with the corpse for 24 hours after death just in case they 'woke'
A person designated to read the deceased person's will at his/her wake or other such ceremony.
A person designated to read the deceased person's will at his/her wake or other such ceremony.
Yes, it is perfectly acceptable to bring a sympathy card to a wake. However, many people choose to bring the card to the gathering afterwards so as to not take away from the mood of the wake.
Many Irish use the claddagh ring for marriage since the 1700s. The hands represent friendship, the crown represents loyalty and the heart represents love. The custom started in a small village near Galway on the west coast of Ireland. Another Irish tradition is a grad celebration of food and drink for the deceased called an Irish wake. Easter is a time of spring cleaning where homes are blessed by the local priest.
Músclaím ar a seacht.
A wake table was used in traditional Irish wakes. The body of the deceased was laid out upon, or sometimes under the table, with the mourners surrounding it, either seated or standing or both. The idea was to protect the body from being snatched by evil spirits. Generally speaking the wake was synonmous with the consumption of large quantities of other kinds of spirits, although whether evil or not I leave to the reader to decide for him/herself.
The social gathering after the deceased has been laid to rest
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