Do you say 'Is it your husband and you' or 'you and your husband'?

The custom is to mention the person you are speaking to first, then any other person, then yourself. For example:

You and your husband;
You and my husband;
Your husband and I;
My husband and I;
You, your husband and I;
You, my husband and I.
The custom is to mention the person you are speaking to first, then any other person, then yourself. For example:

You and your husband;
You and my husband;
Your husband and I;
My husband and I;
You, your husband and I;
You, my husband and I.