I'm not an expert, but from what I've observed, read on this FAQ, and studied out of Sam's book, a N's future is of concern. After all, everything is all about HIM , and his future is part of his life. The N I know plans for his future very carefully, although he likes to leave lots of "wiggle room" to change his plans if something better comes along. He is often secretive about his plans. As for a mate in the future....well, I think they figure they can always come up with a source of supply, whether it be in the form of an activity, interesting purchase or project, or, if things really get tough, he can turn on the charm and find a person to relate to. I may be all wrong on this, but this is what I've noticed. They prioritize their activities to fulfill their need for whatever supply they seek at the time. I think they keep their eyes open for people to look after them when they're old and sick...talk about planning ahead!
They don't think of you actively - but they add you to a "database" of old and discarded sources that can be "recycled" for future use.
To say a narcissist is insecure would be to put it lightly. They are PROFOUNDLY insecure. You would be too if you were rejected by everyone, including your parents, for who you really are. It is hard to love and care about someone for who they really are when you dont know who they really are. After all the narcissist has a fake personality which he seems to think people will admire him for but once people see through it, the narcissist becomes very lonely.
No because rejection means you know who and what they really are and know all their true self. They think they are god and that one cannot live without them. They believe that you are the one who needs them, when in reality it is the other way around. Once a narcissist always a narcissist. They cannot change
The way in which a narcissist thinks is basically everything to do with the self. It is all what is in it for them, what they can gain out of each situation, what they can extract from each person they come into contact with. When they have no particular use for that person, they discard them without a second's thought.
Bet You Think I'm Lonely was created in 1994.
If You Think You're Lonely Now was created in 1980.
Yes you do. Because without a friend, you'll be lonely and sad that nobody would think your nice.
I think it is Mr. Lonely
# Get counseling for yourself. # Do NOT Tell him you suspect he's a destructive narcissist! # Learn all you can about this incurable personality disorder # Think about leaving him and things will NOT get better.
it's never stated clearly, like "I'm a narcissist!" But most people think so and at certain moments some characters( for example ichigo) think "narcissist" or something along those lines
NO, it's your loss if you leave the beautiful wonderful them! My late mother was a narcissist and did not think about anybody except herself. Was a horrible parent, and even worse grandparent.