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You are absolutely correct in your analysis of this person. They have had 3 years to seek out help for their problem and appear to have wasted those 3 years. Unless this person is willing to go for help (and mean it) there is nothing else you can do. It's best to move on. Good luck Marcy

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Q: How can you finish an abusive relationship when he won't accept narcissistic behaviors and wants to try anything to make it work but you know he can't change because you have tried for 3 years?
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