How can you get rid of being shy around girls?

  • Many people are shy of the opposite sex, but some just hide it better. There is nothing wrong with being shy. The trick to getting over debilitating shyness is to realize the girl is not any different than you are and she may well be shy; have many interests the same as you do. The best way to start out on a date is either go with another couple you know so the attention is not constantly on you and you will feel more at ease or, asking a girl out to the movies because there is less talk while watching a movie you both like. After the movie you could go to a cafe and sit and talk to get to know each other better and before you know it you will have a little more confidence when going out with a girl.